My BFF always calls me “Boy Crazy” just because I got one of my other friend’s crush’s number for her. It really hurts my feelings because I’m not boy crazy. This isn’t the first time she’s called me names like this. I know she doesn’t mean it, but how can I tell her to stop.
-Anonymous
Hmm…let’s review the facts here. You got your friend’s crush’s number for your friend and your BFF calls you “Boy Crazy”? Seems as though she’s exaggerating just a bit. It sounds like you were just trying to help your friend, which makes you a good person, not “Boy Crazy.”
Next time your BFF decides to call you names, kindly let her know you don’t appreciate it and ask her to stop. Find out why she feels the need to call you “Boy Crazy.” Is she jealous of your natural ability to get along with guys? Maybe she secretly wishes she could be more like you. Whatever the reason, it doesn’t give her an excuse to be rude to you.
Chances are, you girls are just having a little misunderstanding. There’s no reason to let it ruin your friendship. You could also try explaining to your BFF that you weren’t trying to make moves on your friend’s crush, you were just trying to help her out. Hopefully she understands…and maybe she’ll even ask for some pointers on being friends with guys!
Lots of love,
L’Oreal
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BY ANDREA T. ON 10/1/2008 5:50:00 PM 66 COMMENTS