Okay so I LOVE to flirt!! I flirt with boys next to me in class, in the halls, and even at the store! I can’t help it. It’s just when I see a guy it’s a reflex to flirt with him. My friend has a really nice boyfriend and I’m starting to like him! I know it’s horrible and I hate liking him but I can’t help it! She been such a great friend to me and I can’t thank her enough...it’s just I really like this guy and I don’t want it to ruin our friendship. How do I stop this nonsense before it ruins our friendship???
XOXO,
Boycrazy
There’s nothing wrong with flirting. It’s kind of like chocolate—great in moderation, but too much is never a good thing. But Girl Rule #1 dictates you should never, EVER flirt with a friend’s crush, boyfriend, or ex-boyfriend.
Let’s start at the beginning. Why do you like your friend’s boyfriend? Make a list of these qualities and look for them in other guys. Think you’re just into your friend’s BF because you can’t have him? That’s not a good reason and you know it.
Do you really want to ruin a great friendship and lose a great friend over some boy? Trust me on this one: no guy is ever worth losing your girls. How would you feel if your friend was flirting with your boyfriend? Not so great, huh? Show your girl some respect and remember her BF is off-limits.
The fact that you even considered your friend’s feelings shows you’re a great friend as well. Remember, it’s okay to flirt, but that doesn’t mean you should flirt with everyone. Boyfriends come and go, but great girl friends last a lifetime.
Lots of love,
L’Oreal
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BY ANDREA T. ON 9/29/2008 5:36:00 PM 50 COMMENTS