My dad is an alcoholic. He is a really nice guy when he doesn’t drink but turns into a monster when he does. He doesn’t hit me or anyone, but he tells me I’m stupid and uses other hurtful words. Worst of all he doesn’t remember doing any of this, and he wont admit he’s an alcoholic. There are so many reasons why he needs to stop, he has ulcers and reflex, and his medicines are poisonous with alcohol. Please help!
-Anonymous
Hey, babe. This is a serious issue that you need to do something about quick. Sure, your dad's a nice guy and I'm sure he loves you very much, but the drinking needs to be limited or come to a stop.
So you've talked to your dad and he says he doesn't remember saying mean things to you. Next time this happens, have a witness by your side. I don't suggest talking back or doing anything too dramatic when he is drunk because you don't know what would happen. Having a witness will be helpful when explaining to your dad the next day how he gets when he drinks. You said his drinking affects how he takes his medicine. Talk to him about how serious it is for his health.
I definitely think you need to sit him down and have a serious conversation with him. He needs to know that his actions are affecting not only him, but people who he cares about around him.
Also, you really need to talk to your mom or another trusted guardian about this situation. Let them know how you feel when your dad drinks. This is so important because hurtful words can turn into something bigger later on. Get help soon, girl.
<3, Sharon
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BY ANDREA T. ON 9/16/2008 1:59:00 PM 45 COMMENTS