Whenever I like a guy, I ALWAYS become really close to them up to the point where I'm positive they like me back. But the problem is, I never get to asking them out. I get scared that they'll say no. So during the loooooong process of me trying to figure out if I should ask him out or not, another girl comes in and the guy I like starts liking that girl. What can I do to fix this???
-Anonymous
Hey, girlie! So you're a little late on grabbin' the boy when ya can, huh? No worries! This can be fixed, chica.
First of all, when you realize that you like a boy, think hard about whether you can see yourself dating him. If you honestly can, then that's when you need to find out if he feels the same way for you. When you know for sure that he is into you just the same, then you'll know it's time to win his heart for sure and ask him out!
You shouldn't feel scared about the guy saying no. You def have to be confident about this! Be prepared for a yes or a no, babe. If he says yes, then awwwwww yeah, girl! But if he says no, then it's totally cool! You should accept that it wasn't meant to be and you can always stay friends.
So next time, make sure your crush knows how you feel and do what ya gotta do before another chick comes and it becomes too late! Good luck, chica!
<3, Sharon
ARE YOU THE ONE CAUSING ALL THE DRAMA? CLICK HERE to submit your own problem to be answered on Girl Talk!
BY ANDREA T. ON 9/15/2008 11:51:00 AM 76 COMMENTS