Dave: There’s a lot to be said for spontaneity, rather than plotting out a grand smooching scheme. If you really like a guy and want to kiss him (and you think the feeling is mutual), there’s nothing wrong with letting him know. Don’t make the guy play a torturous game of “Should I or Shouldn’t I?” If you’ve decided you want to kiss him, go ahead and do it. I’ve never heard any post-practice locker room conversations along the lines of, “I had to dump her. She kissed me.”