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Help! I made out with my bestie's crush


 

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My friend and I like the same guy, and I made out with him at a party. My friend found out and said she wanted to punch my face in. Now she says it’s OK, but she doesn’t call me like she used to and, when I call her, she says she’s busy. What should I do? I’ve apologized, but I can’t take back what I did.


Dear Sorry,

I can see why your friend feels hurt, can’t you? On the other hand, you didn’t steal her boyfriend—you kissed her crush, who was also your crush. No real crime in that. In fact, it’s possible she might have done the same thing if given the opportunity. E-mail or leave her a message that says, “My New Year’s wish is to have our friendship back the way it was,” or, “Let’s not lose our friendship over a guy.” Maybe she just needs time for her wounded pride to heal. And if you and the guy become a couple? Nix the public makeout scenes.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/26/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Ask her if she had the same chance as you would she have made a different decision and maybe that will make her relize that sometimes you dont think before you do stuff. Ask her if she would have wanted you to forgive her. Let her know that your truley sorry if you knew it would have messed up your freindship then you wouldnt have done the same.! Give her some time to think..

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by XxEricaxX on 12/26/2012 10:55:10 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what do you say after you kiss someone??? cause if you don't say anything, it's totally awkward... know what i mean?

 

Hey girlie, I can't think of a time that I've had that be a problem. I think generally you can just continue normal conversation. Or you can just smile. Silence isn't always a bad thing. It gives you both a chance to reflect on the kiss.


Lauren T.

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by Pandagirl528 on 12/26/2012 8:23:35 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD when will you post winners of that christmas give away with the games and stuff that stopped on christmas eve?




Try this link:

http://www.girlslife.com/category/winners.aspx 
mailyse f.

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by mrm0203 on 12/26/2012 3:49:05 PM

 
 

HEY GIRLS***********88
Need advice on this kinda of stuff.Like boys,hair+makeup,etc.?join my advice queen!I'll give you my opinion,and will always be truthful.SmileSo join my advice queen,you won't regret it Smile
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by VNJ99 on 12/26/2012 2:55:34 PM

 
 

It does not matter that her friend and him were not dating
She still made out with her friends crush and that's wrong
I know that they are not dating but that does not
Make it right for her to make out with him
I'm sorry but if I were her friend I would be mad
To

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by redvelvetluv on 12/26/2012 1:10:25 PM

 
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