You talk all the time, but 90 percent of communication is
nonverbal. So what does that mean when it comes to your eye candy? A guy can tell if you like him, not based on
what you say, but by small gestures and movements. So when you’re flirting, be
aware of your body language because it’s telling him a lot. Here are a few
subtle tricks to show him you’re interested:
Touch
his arm. If you’re laughing at a joke he just told, placing your
hand on his shoulder shows him that you like having him near and keeps you out
of the friend zone.
Eye
contact. Keeping eye contact means that you’re listening and
genuinely interested.
Posture. Sitting
up straight shows you’re confident and you want him to talk to you. Slouching shows
lack of interest and crossing your arms can be a defensive position.
Translation: he will think you don’t want him around.
Smile.
Showing your pearly whites is open and welcoming and shows that you enjoy his
company.
Lean in. Getting
close to him makes everything a little more personal. Face his direction to
show you’re into him.
Fiddle
with your hair. When people are nervous, they fidget. Guys
know this, and when you coyly run your hands through your hair or flip it
behind your shoulder, he’ll notice.
Raise
your brows. You probably do it without noticing, but when you see
something you like (like a cute guy) you raise your eyebrows slightly. Keeping
them slightly raised for a moment longer shows how expressive you are. Plus, he
might get the idea you think he’s cute, which is the whole point of flirting!
BY HANNAH HICKLEN ON 12/8/2012 9:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, how to flirt, get his attention now, from BGF to BF, playing it cool