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I gossiped online about a bud--but I want to take it all back!

 
To get revenge on one of my friends, I made a gossip blog last week and pretended to be a girl with a different name. I never told her because the next day we made up. But just the other day, she found it and started showing it to people. She thought it was me, but I denied it because I didn’t want us to fight again. I deleted the website today, but I’m still afraid everyone will find out

 

Dear Bad Blogger,

I hope the whole thing blows over, but I also hope you learned that revenge is a rotten road and that being mean to friends is low low low. If she finds out, apologize profusely and say that you were an immature idiot and that you feel horrible and are wiser now. If she does not find out, even better. In the future, if you want distance from someone, take a step back rather than plunging into attack mode.
 
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/7/2012 4:16:00 PM

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what do you do if there is a clingy girl that is only nice to you and nobody else just that you can be her friend?




Hey girl! Be nice back and find a way to let her know she should be nicer to others. Lead by example and maybe you can be a good influence on her to make others feel included. Good luck! 

xo 
Taeler L.

by Carrie_Underwood on 12/7/2012 10:34:32 PM

 
 



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My friend is coming over this weekend, and I really want us to have a good time and not be bored. PLEASE give me ideas on what we can do! Thank you.




Hey girl! You could grab some movies you both have been dying to see and make a marathon of it. Pop some popcorn, grab a few sweets and make it a real event. Rate them like movie critics after and have a great time comparing what you both liked or didn't. Have fun! 

xo 
Taeler L.

by LovePeaceHope on 12/7/2012 10:19:53 PM

 
 

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by hgrules on 12/7/2012 9:46:13 PM

 
 



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So I got into a fight with my friend because she likes s bad boy. She thinks she can change him but I know you can't change a person like him. I liked his brother and they are the same in how they act. I knew I couldn't change him. But no matter what I say to her she gets mad at me. I just don't want her to get hurt. He is the type to only like the girls that look perfect and she is more a nerd. So she put a note in his locker and I was telling her its just a waste and that he wasn't gonna read it cause the note was telling him to change what he does. And I started telling her that he wasn't a good person and she will get hurt. She didn't listen and got mad and she used my secrets against me and she used his brother as an example which was hurt the worst. I then ignored her because she had no right to use my secrets against me. We made up but I'm still mad I forgave her cause she was my only best friend. Anymore she just makes me mad and I don't know what to do. Help!




Hey girl! Unfortunately, there is probably not a ton you can do now. You're a good friend to warn her and let her know you're worried about the outcome. Hopefully she will take your advice, but sounds like she is still going to act on her feelings. The best way for her to learn may be to get her heart broken a little. Just remember to still be there for her if that happens! Good luck! 




xoxo

Taeler  
Taeler L.

by HockeyLuver on 12/7/2012 9:31:41 PM

 
 



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i have a friend problem. my friend (lets call her J) and i like to kinda play around, like i chase her outside and she chases me. We don't hurt each other. then one day she was like, "my mom says i cant hang out with you anymore if you chase me around. i got muddy and it ruined my new boots and jeans" and she said it in front of all my friends and it was really embarrassing. they were all like, "you cant do that anymore its really mean and you ruined her boots." i was really embarrassed and i wanted to say that she does it too and she always laughs when i do it but i couldn't. now i'm embarrassed to talk to her and she just ignores me. i really don't want to talk to her. its pulling apart our little "group" of friends.what should i do?




Hey girl! Tricky situation. For the sake of your mutual friends though, I think talking it out might be the best way to go. Pull her aside one day soon and just ask if there is anything you can to repair the friendship. It certainly isn't your fault, but taking the high road might be the easiest way to ease tension. Good luck! 




xoxo

Taeler  
Taeler L.

by mddreams123 on 12/7/2012 7:45:02 PM

 
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