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Never been kissed: Why am I the odd girl out?


 

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I'm 13 and never been kissed. I'm not even scared of it! But everyone (and I do mean EVERYONE) at my school has already. Why am I the odd girl out?
 
Trust me--your sitch does not make you odd at all, because it’s actually a very common one. Everyone’s different and gains their experiences with boys at different paces. So even if it seems like everyone else has secured a smooch, that isn’t at all the case, and that shouldn’t add pressure on you. Plus, credit goes out to you girl for not even being nervous! You should be proud of this and proud that you’re waiting for the right guy and time instead of spoiling that moment just because you wanna get it over with.
 
In all honesty hun, I felt the same way you did...and I didn’t even have my first kiss until I was 15! But the reality was that even though I felt like everyone else had been kissed, it just wasn’t true. There were a ton of girls in my grade stuck in my same situation but we were all too shy to talk about it. I’m sure that’s why it may seem like everyone else has had that experience, when really there are a bunch of girls your age who haven’t. So don’t let it get you down! Just be yourself, remain optimistic and set a goal to spark up a conversation with your crush the next time you see him to give that moment the kicks-start you want.

BY JENN SHELTON ON 11/17/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, crush crash course, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, pressure to get physical, sweet single life

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I have 2 "questions"
So my parents are divorced and every summer I go visit my dad for about 8-10 weeks. Don't get me wrong I love my dad and i love spending time with him but I miss my friends A LOT!!! I kind of want to spend more time here (where I live for the school year) but I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings. What should I do??

My other "dilemma" is that me and this guy have liked each other for like a year and we finally told each other and we were good friends before. We're now dating and I want to spend more time with him but his mom is super overprotective and practically thinks all girls are evil. How can I get to know his mom better so she can see that I'm not a "bad" girl???

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by citygurl13 on 11/25/2012 2:29:29 AM

 
 

i had my first kiss when i was 13, but i'm 16 now and most of my friends haven't had boyfriends.

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by the_last_ninja on 11/24/2012 10:54:11 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!
Okay, I like this guy but he isn't exactly "the hottest tamale on the plate", if you know what I mean. And even worse, I think one of my best friends likes him too! She's never actually admitted it but whenever we talk about it she gets all giggly and blush and says she doesn't, so I'm pretty sure she does. Any advice? Help!

Hey girl,

It doesn't matter how popular he is or what he looks like as long as you like his personality, so don't let that be a factor! As for your friend, it's okay to ave the same crush, but if you are planning to tell him you like him I would check with your friend first so she isn't hurt!

Meghan D.

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by s4prez on 11/24/2012 10:45:55 PM

 
 



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So, I met this guy at the park the other day and we hit it off. I thought he liked me a lot because he asked for my number. Then I texted him a few days after to talk and his signature was <3 Courtney <3, which as you may have guessed is not my name. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said " I do now, sorry." I was heartbroken, because he is uber-cute. He might be kind of a player so I'm pretty sure they might be broken up by now. So, there are two questions here. Did he really like me? If he ask me out should I say yes or no?Aside from him being sorta a player he also has a swearing problem but not around me. I don't want to try to change him. I am in 7th grade and homeschool and not allowed to date. I feel like I have no idea how to meet him and talk. I can't go to the park cuz it's no like winter. As I said I have serious problems. ;) LOL

 

Hey girlie, so to me it seems like you got a bit of a player on your hands. If you only met him once, and he's in a relationship however sketchy it may be it seems to me like he's not worth your time. I'm sure he was initially interested in you when he asked for your number but the fact that he had a new gal within days proves he must have been chattin up several ladies at a time...and you deserve a guy who's gonna give you all his attention! Plus, the fact that your not allowed to date yet means  that this shouldn't stress you out. For now, I'd stick to meeting guys through trusted friends and build solid relationships with guys you can see yourself dating, once your allowed of course. Hope this helps!


Jenn S.

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by niallstrueprincess on 11/23/2012 3:19:23 PM

 
 

13?? I'm 15 and haven't kissed or dated, neither have most of my friends. Anyway, what is the rush?

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by Catlover4723 on 11/20/2012 5:11:23 PM

 
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