I'm 13 and never
been kissed. I'm not even scared of it! But everyone (and I do mean EVERYONE)
at my school has already. Why am I the odd girl out?
Trust me--your sitch does not make you odd at all, because
it’s actually a very common one. Everyone’s different and gains their
experiences with boys at different paces. So even if it seems like everyone else
has secured a smooch, that isn’t at all the case, and that shouldn’t add
pressure on you. Plus, credit goes out to you girl for not even being nervous!
You should be proud of this and proud that you’re waiting for the right guy and
time instead of spoiling that moment just because you wanna get it over with.
In all honesty hun, I felt the same way you did...and I didn’t
even have my first kiss until I was 15! But the reality was that even though I
felt like everyone else had been
kissed, it just wasn’t true. There were a ton of girls in my grade stuck in my
same situation but we were all too shy to talk about it. I’m sure that’s why it
may seem like everyone else has had that experience, when really there are a
bunch of girls your age who haven’t. So don’t let it get you down! Just be
yourself, remain optimistic and set a goal to spark up a conversation with
your crush the next time you see him to give that moment the kicks-start you
BY JENN SHELTON ON 11/17/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, crush crash course, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, pressure to get physical, sweet single life