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I stuffed my bra--and people found out

 
Before school each day, I would put just a little bit more tissue in my bra. When it looked like I was truly developed, some tissues popped out, and now everyone knows I stuffed. The other day, a boy said, “I have a cold. Do you have a Kleenex?” and some girls laughed.

 

Dear Embarrassed,

That is definitely mortifying enough to be on the And How Was Your Day? Page. But this too shall pass. And guess what? Your classmates made fun of you because they are as self-conscious and insecure as you are. Will they mature emotionally? Yes. Will you mature physically? Yes. Will the waiting period be hard for everybody? Yes.

 

While it’s tough, try not to pay attention to the teasing because it will just show the jerky kids they succeeded in upsetting you. For now, work on accepting your own changing body. (Curvy girls complain, too.) Maybe you could get more involved in sports and dance—you might come to appreciate your body for what it does rather than how it looks.
 
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/3/2012 6:28:00 PM

POSTED IN bras, bullying 101, how to deal with a bully, dealing with gossip, dear carol, advice from Carol Weston

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So there is this guy who I really liked! I didn't know him very well but he asked me out and I said yes. He's so sweet and amazing and perfect! He always tells me how much he loves me and I love him too! The thing is the relationship is getting more and more serious and I'm realizing that I just don't want a boyfriend right now! I feel like I'm too young and stupid for that right now. How can I break up with him with out crushing his heart?

Hey girl,

If you tell him exactly what you posted here, he'll understand! Tell him you like him but that you don't think you two are mature enough to handle your relationship. Who knows, maybe you can date again one day when you're a bit older!

Meghan D.

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by lolomar on 6/22/2012 5:06:54 PM

 
 

Hey I know someone who did that people noticed to. But I am glad I don't have to do that I don't really want boys to look at me that way I just want to be me. You know that fealling

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by Wolfmoonstar on 6/17/2012 12:55:58 PM

 
 

I am kind of like that, I didnt realize what some things were that were being said and my friends would make fun of me for being naive.  Meghan D.

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by luckykel on 6/9/2012 12:24:09 AM

 
 

Giiirrrl trust me having huge boobs is a pain in the a$$. I'm 12 and I'm short with huge boobs and huge feet. Enjoy being small while you can

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by Firefox101 on 6/8/2012 2:28:06 AM

 
 



Hey! I have a situation that i need some advice on. Schools out (as of yesterday) and Im going to be a freshman in the fall. Im not the hottest girl in the world by far but I do have a boyfriend whose really nice. Now there was one point in time when i had a ton of acne and its gone now but i have scars and red patches which i cover up with makeup but everyone still remembers those days, especially my bfs friend. This friend who i'll call T gets a kick out of making fun of me all the time and it gets old. I dont tell my bf because I dont want a fight but is there aany way I can stop this? Thanks a bunch!
-Redraidercheerleader




Hey girl!

This sounds like a solvable situation. Your BF's friend is probably just insecure about himself, so he makes fun of you to make himself feel better. The best thing you can do is not let it bother you. If it does, don't show it. If you don't acknowledge him, he'll probably stop. If you're not giving him a reaction, then he won't have a reason to make fun of you. If it gets really bad, there's no reason why you shouldn't tell your BF. He cares about you and his friend, so he'll probably want to help to make sure you two get along. Good luck!
Rachael A.

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by Redraidercheerleader on 5/30/2012 11:59:12 AM

 
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