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My BF told his friend he thinks the new girl at school is pretty. Is he going to dump me?

Just because your boyfriend thinks the new girl is pretty, it does not mean he’s going to dump you. It means he’s a normal guy, who notices girls and talks to his friends about it. It doesn’t mean he thinks she’s prettier than you or that he wants to go out with her. Don’t make more out of it than what it is. Be honest—don’t you notice when a new guy is cute? That doesn’t mean you like your BF less. However, if he obsesses over other girls or shamelessly flirts, you might want to consider dumping him!

BY ANDREA T. ON 9/25/2008 5:48:00 AM 59 COMMENTS

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Hi everyone am i the first comment? Well Im super happy im going to go on a trip today to see my sis at college

basketballchic on 9/25/2008 10:25:34 AM

that makes sense

oh and PLEASE don't say 1st comment you have no idea how annoying it is!!! thx

sparky4me on 9/25/2008 12:44:31 PM

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<3

soccergurl6 on 9/25/2008 3:53:27 PM

I think its reasonable but if it ReAlLy bothers you you should just talk to him. Just dont make it a big deal! I advise you not to talk to him if you can help it its not that bad.

lexieloo2 on 9/25/2008 3:54:45 PM

Friendship is like peeing your pants, everyone can see it, but only YOU can feel the true warmth

That is a very true saying... lol it's Verry funny any girls need advice??

lexieloo2 on 9/25/2008 3:55:27 PM

lol lexieloo2!! did u get that off best love poems???? i found that same thing there....PS- check out my profile every1...finally got it approved!!!
-Popstar♥

flirtypopstargirl on 9/25/2008 6:11:01 PM

that is so opposite of what happen to me! my last boyfriend was kind of jealous every time i would talk to another boy a little bit more then him he got kinda of jealous! one time i was leaning a little next to the boy sitting next to me because i was helping him with something and my boyfriend got so mad that he scratch my ear! like really hard! i talk to him about it though...LOL

flamencodancer on 9/25/2008 7:07:28 PM

check out my profile

batonluvr13 on 9/25/2008 7:15:31 PM

guys are gonna look at girls. girls are gonna look at guys. its a fact of life. you never know... maybe he said she was pretty because his friend asked. maybe his friend is the one thats interested in the new girl. i wouldnt freak over something simple. =)

KayBay on 9/25/2008 7:54:21 PM

hi where is my comment?

cutiechic525 on 9/25/2008 8:23:40 PM

It's okay we all do it ;)

MunkQoo on 9/25/2008 9:36:59 PM

MOD: What does first comment mean?

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/25/2008 10:39:28 PM

Mod PLEASE, PLEASE, PRETTY PLEASE HELP!!!

My new school is insane! I have SOOO much more responsibilities and I am totally stressed out. I used to have at MOST 1 and a half hours of homework but now I have at LEAST 3 hours EVERY SINGLE NIGHT! I feel like I'm in a deep ditch and I keep trying to dig myself out but I can't. I AM SOOOO STRESSED! What should I do???!!!

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LYC13 on 9/25/2008 10:43:03 PM

okay if my boyfriend ever did that he woulld be gone

aquamouse on 9/25/2008 11:33:07 PM

ok my crush is my BFF's cousin he asked me out and I made up a lie and said maybe some other time because I don't want to wired out are friendship I don't know what to do and yesterday he put a note in my locker that said hey do you want to go out on saturday night lett me know from Max

shauna rocks on 9/26/2008 8:48:58 AM

I don't think he's gonna dump you. Just like Lucky said, don't you notice hot guys?

ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/26/2008 12:03:07 PM

heyyy peeps guess what ?

I'm gonna try to write a book!

I have the whole story planed out in my mid, now I just need to get it on paper or type it up, then when I'm done I'm gonna send it to a publishing company

flip-flop_diva on 9/26/2008 4:28:28 PM

Well if theres a hot guy im like 'hes hot'but i would get mad if my BF said a girl was hot

haha hypocritical

flip-flop_diva on 9/26/2008 4:31:26 PM

LYC13-
don't worry, that's the EXACT same way i feel. All you have to do is just get adjusted. Just do all your work, and make sure to MAKE time for your work. When I didn't make time for my work, I would fall so far behind. Also, just try to think positive. I know it sounds impossible, but once I started thinking about my work "Hey, this could be a chance for me to learn something" it got SO much easier. I hope I helped!

flip-flop_diva on 9/26/2008 4:34:14 PM

mod, could u please answer my question?
i will repost it:
mod,
this girl (who is very mean and doesnt like me, lets call her "R") likes this hawt guy ("B"), the same guy i like. well she's in my circle of friends (shes not really my friend tho) and just yesterday she announced she liked him. well my other friend ("W") asked me if i wanted W to ask B who he liked more, me or "R". ell my other supposd friend ("A") overheard us and told R and a bunch of her stupid friends and whenever i walked by they stopped talking-- obviously they were badmouthing me. so i decided not to do it-- i have my eye on another guy anyway. i told W that the plan was off because i thought A was mad at me for it. so W told A and apologized and then A said to me, all angry, "why would i be MAD?!" and she was being all weird for the rest of the day. i feel sooo horrible, and i'm afraid A will turn all my other friends against me. i dont know what to do!!!!! i'm so sad because A really is mean and so is M. but my other friends r sweet and nice and i would hate to lose them. i told A, "well i just mentioned he was kinda cute and whitney said she wanted to see who he liked. i never meant to come between him and melany!! and i thought you were mad but now i know you're not. so just forget everything, ok? its cool." and she she sorof mumbled something and kinda avoided me for the rest of the day. i'm afraid to go to my one friend's party tomorrw because what if she told everyone at basketball practice what a horrible person i am???? i am so scared!!! please help!!! sorry this is so long!!

Hey girl!

Go to the party. Be confident, don't care what other people think.

<3 Brianna

luv2shop112 on 9/26/2008 5:55:35 PM

mod im really really interested in how you become a mod.
so how did you become a mod?
tell me ALL the details
and i also really really want to know how u can become a magazine editor or a perosn who writes fashion stuff for the magazines. PLZ PLZ TELL ME ALL THE DETAILS PLZ THANKS A LOT!
peace out! dayjawaja

Hey girl!

If you have any questions about what a mod does and stuff check out this http://www.girlslife.com/page/Frequently-Asked-Questions.aspx

<3 Brianna

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 6:51:58 PM

hey brianna thx for showing me that link!
oh and by the way what does <3 mean anyway thx
;)
dayjawaja

its a heart so it means love.

<3 Brianna

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 7:08:46 PM

MODERATOR!!!!!!!
i made my school volleyball team, but i reallly have a problem. there's this girl i've known since first grade whos on the team too and she used to be my friend, but now shes not and shes really mean. shes not even a good player and she gets picked for every single game (im sorry this will be so long!)! and there are better players including me who never get to play!! when shes not around teachers she's really kind of bratty and tries to ignore everyone whos not in her circle of friends, but all the teachers love her. i dont know what the coach sees in her, especially based on the ten or so points she lost us at yesterdays game. i dont know how to make the coach see that there are better and nicer players help! and theres also this girl on the team, she doesnt have very many friends and i dont like her at all, but shes always stuck to me like glue. she always wants to be with me and doesnt realize i have other friends. i dont know how to get my point across that i cant always be with her without being mean. help me please! i am really confused!!!

Hey girl!

Just talk to her and be upfront and tell her the truth and how you are feeling and stuff.

<3 Brianna

tiedtogetherwithasmile14 on 9/26/2008 7:24:05 PM

oh ok i get it its a heart LOL! thank you for telling me i always wondered thanks

<3 dayjawaja
LOL

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 7:34:11 PM

BRIANNA DO U THINK PLAYING THE LOTTERY IS BAD CAUSE IT IS GAMBILING RIGHT?
IM KINDA COMFUSED
THANKS
dayjawaja

Yea gambling at your age is illegal so do not do it.

<3 Brianna

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 7:36:22 PM

thanks brianna for the tips!

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 7:53:50 PM

~~~~~~~~~~~~MOD~~~~~~~~~ I need help I have been really bored with my friends. I want more of a variety.I would never just leave them but I feel I am drifting away from them and have less in common with them.I see all these different people and I want to get to know them, the problem is i don't know how,I'm also really shy what should i do?
thanx~

Hey girl!

To meet new people just be yourself and open up and talk about stuff you like to do or things you guys have in common.

<3 Brianna

rmizzy123 on 9/26/2008 7:57:38 PM

see if she likes him to if she douse dump him

Hugs and Kisses on 9/26/2008 8:52:45 PM

I like this guy (guy a), but I still like my old crush (guy b) a little. My friends are trying to get me to make a move on guy a, But I'm afraid it won't end well. Plus I still like guy b a little. One part of me thinks guy a is so sweet, and the other half thinks he is a tota Same for guy b! Can you help me?

I can't tell you which guy you should like but don't make a move until you figure it out! Laura

penguinrok on 9/26/2008 9:10:58 PM

MOD, tomorrow i have a school dance kind of thing where we get to meet our fellow classmates and stuff and i have no idea what to wear!!!!
PLESE, PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP THANKS
dayjawaja

wear jeans and a fun top. Laura

dayjawaja on 9/26/2008 9:18:32 PM

MOD!!

I'm in 9th grade, but I really want to go to college. I know what college I want to go to and what I want to major in. I want to make the most out of high school, but I really want it to be 4 years from now! It's only been a month of high school and I just want to be in college! HELP!

xylophonegirl on 9/27/2008 12:54:53 PM

****MOD****
Okay. So my friend has this guy who has a crush on her. She said it doesn't bother her if I tease her about it. She would laugh along with me. Then the other day I cracked a joke about her (it wasn't that mean either. Just one of the usuals)and the guy, and she started to cry and told me she had tried too tell me to stop and it wasn't funny and they were stupid and all this. Then all my other friends yelled at me. It was a really light joke, too. One that was WAY nicer than the one my other friend had made a second before, which she had lauhed at. The guy she liked tried to be nice and all, and she called him a jerk. He looked really hurt. Now I have two problems. What's up with my friend? She definitly meant she didn't mind, because I could see she wasn't lying. But, I don't know whether to be nice to the guy or not. He's pretty nice and all, but she keeps calling him a jerk and an idiot. I don't think so but should I risk my friends thinking I like him (eeeew!) to make him feel better? Especially now that he sits all alone at luch because his other friends hate him? AHHHH SO CONFUSED!!!!

it sounds like something might have happened that you don't know about. L

kiaralilly on 9/27/2008 1:47:12 PM

her bf is just human, and we all have opinions. and honestly, do u expect for him to not notice any other girls?! and just because the new girl is hot, doesn't mean that he is going to like her. she probably doesn't have the same sense of humor, or adventerous side that the bf likes.

rmh33 on 9/27/2008 3:13:31 PM

any one on?

kk4ever on 9/27/2008 3:16:31 PM

*~*~*~MOD!!*~*~*~
and other gl girlies
ok i just found out this guy i sit next to in English likes me. the problem? he's one of my cles friends ex-boyfriend... When they were going out, they had lotsa problems- whenever he was in a bad mood, he would dump on her and call her stupid and ugly. I've never seen that side of him before, however. Should I just let him down? I don't wanna make drama with my friend, but he is really nice and funny.....
please Please PLEASE answer this!!!!!!!!!!

I think you could give him a chance. L

lipgloss0018 on 9/27/2008 3:16:49 PM

Mods***
Hiya! I have a question...My best guy friend (who is my self-acclaimed bestest friend evr...xD) ALWAYS flirts with me. He always has, that's how we became friends and stuff. It's always been an I-like-you-and-I-kno-u-like-me-too scenario. And so one day I was hanging around with him and his frinds, and he pulls me aside and asks if I would say yes if he asked me out. I said that I would. He said, "I'm not actually gonna, though." and a few minutes later: "If you are gonna ask me out u should do it before high school cuz that's when i'll be dating (blank)."
So I asked if he actually wanted to go out and he just said sure he didn't rly care. So right away we stayed best friends, nothing more. BUT HE STILL OPENLY FLIRTS! He hugs me, and defends me, and worstly gets jealous of my new crush and any guy who even talks to me! It's crazy! What can I do?????
Thx SOOOOOOOO much! lots of <3!

Hey girl!

Just talk to him maturely and ask him if he likes you more than a friend and if he doesn't then he is just trying to be protective of you. Just talk to him.

<3 Brianna

imastermind on 9/27/2008 5:00:51 PM

.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.!!!MOD!!!.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.
what should i say to break up with a guy?! PLEASE HELP!!! (p.s. i dont have like a certin reason for it i just dont really wanna be with him anymore.) thanx! luv ya!!! <3

Hey girl!

Definitely do not do it over the phone or im or text message. Do it face to face and just pour your heart out and tell him what you r feeling.

<3 Brianna

novemberbaby164 on 9/27/2008 5:24:39 PM

****MOD****
i have a boyfriend who gets totally jealous when
i talk about my ex. i mean me and my ex had ben friends forever. and we decided to date
the first time didn't work
and the second time was a disaster
now my ex doesnt ever text me back.
two questions
What do i do about my ex not texting me back.
and
What do i do about my boyfriend's jealousy??

Hey girl!

Since you have a boyfriend forget your ex for now if u want to make it work with your boyfriend.

<3 Brianna

kcpeace on 9/27/2008 10:08:34 PM

okay so i have a prob! i like this boy and he likes me but he wont go out with cause he said he doesnt know me!!! I dont get it and i need HELP!!!! So Please Help me!

kad013 on 9/28/2008 2:10:39 PM

hello?

kad013 on 9/28/2008 2:14:03 PM

it's gonna be alright k girl
-548kissbliss845

548kissbliss845 on 9/28/2008 3:36:15 PM

kcpeace~
u should NEVER talk about an ex with ur bf!

novemberbaby164 on 9/28/2008 6:06:22 PM

hey
in a relashonship how before we can kiss?
oh i dont know why but my period is three days late.

dakotasgirlxoxo on 9/28/2008 7:47:15 PM

bored???? check out my profile and we can chat!!!!!!

coca08 on 9/28/2008 9:18:48 PM

dakotasgirlxoxo~
i would say u can kiss as soon as u r ready! and my period comes late sometimes 2.
(p.s. i liked a guy name dakota over the summer! lol)

novemberbaby164 on 9/28/2008 10:16:15 PM

haha, me 2!

mocagurl10 on 9/30/2008 12:39:09 AM

hey guys whats up? Its Kad013. So does anybody have a bf?? Well gtg!! ttly

Love ya!!!

Please respond ASAP

kad013 on 9/30/2008 9:33:52 PM

at least the guy u liek likes you!!! mine dosent know i exist, and he likes another girl in my grade and wants me to hook them up!!!! what do i do? Help!

volleyball41 on 10/1/2008 5:18:53 PM

kado13~
i have a bf!!! <3

novemberbaby164 on 10/1/2008 7:10:28 PM

this is hot............

vanessa thurman on 10/2/2008 9:48:04 AM

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