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I am thirteen years old, and I'm only 4ft. 10in. I hate being short and I feel like that is a disadvantage to me. My mom says that I am lucky to be short, but I think otherwise. I hate getting considered as a kid needing a kiddie menu at restaurants! My mom and dad are short, but is there any way to make myself taller?

-Anonymous


You are still young, there is no reason why you won’t grow a few more inches. Even if you are short, as you get older your face will mature and you won’t look like your five years old. It is probably annoying to be mistaken for a little kid and I know you can’t see it now, but when you’re forty two and still looking like you thirteen, you’re going to be in a very luck position.

If your height really has you down, you can do something as easily as wearing heels or wedges to add a few inches of height. The most important thing you do right now is embrace yourself and accept yourself as you are. Ask any guy and they will tell you that they love short girls, it makes them feel protective. Being smaller also means you can fit into all of those super cute clothes that go on sale but are either an extra small or extra large.  Also remember that culturally, human beings were actually very short in general. You will grow a little bit more by high school don’t worry! I grew 4 inches.
 
XO,
JANA
 

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BY ANDREA T. ON 9/28/2008 8:35:00 AM 126 COMMENTS

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yeah i hear where you are coming from! im like only a few months away of being 14, and only like 4' 11'' or so. and it kinda sucks too becaue um.. i have my period already, and you dont grow that much after you get your period, so i probrally will only mkae it to 5 feet. :/

JonasBrothers_lover4ever on 9/28/2008 11:13:48 AM

Same thing happened to me! I'm 13 and was 4' 10" and then, over the summer I shot up to 5' 1"! Which, I know that's only 3 inches, but it's still nice because I'm at a good height. And I'm glad I'm shorter.... Because like Jana said, guys like it better... and do you really want to be taller than everyone else anyway? And shorter is better because you can wear misses AND junoir clothes!

Lexy5 on 9/28/2008 11:21:04 AM

u guys r sooo luckyyy! im likee 5' 10"!! it sucks cuz most of the guys in my grade r shortt so it feels really weird walkn nxt 2 them and stufff and plus its hard 2 give some1 who is short (*cough cough* my bgf *cough cough*) 2 give hugs. tht is y i always act like i hate hugs cuz its just akward cuz im so tall =P so b thankful!

~p0!k@dot95~ on 9/28/2008 1:01:02 PM

ur so lucky!!!! omg!
lucky duck :[
i want to be shorter kinda
im 5'7
Frown
to tall!!!
i want guys to be protective of me Frown
darrrrrn.
all short people are skinny. unlike meeee Cry

baseballchicky16 on 9/28/2008 1:07:00 PM

Don't worry, you will definently grow more. I am 16 and I am still growing some. I would really like to stop though, because I am a little taller or the same height as most boys in my grade and it is kinda akward.

kk16 on 9/28/2008 1:09:07 PM

hey everybody, if you request a song, i can put the chorus up for u for eg,

did you think that i was gonna give it up to u (this time) did u think that it was somethin i was gonna do ( and cry) dont try to tell me what to do dont try to tell me what to say, im better off that way yeah, oh,

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/28/2008 1:31:24 PM

My bff mia is like 5' 3" and she has these guyfriends that are like a foot shorter than her. Smile Smile Smile Smile Laughing

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/28/2008 1:40:07 PM

Oh I'm 10 and 5'5" and I hate it playing soccer and stuff I get hit in the face. If you're walking with a tall person in a lightning storm the tall person would get hit and if you're walking under a flock of birds they will poo on the taller person

swimgirl on 9/28/2008 1:47:52 PM

I know, being short sucks! I'm 12 and like 4' 11'', which isn't too bad except for that all my friends are at least 5'3''! Everyone always asks me how tall I am or says, "Wow, you're short!" And it's like, I know! Frown

ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/28/2008 2:09:31 PM

augh! isn't it sad how we always want what we can't have? dudette, i am 14 almost 15 and 5'7". you think i wouldn't want to be shorter? i'd love to be shorter! sure i have great legs, but i'm taller or as tall as most of the guys in my freshman grade! most of my friends are petite and they have to look UP at me. i tower by a good 4 inches over my frind hannah. just remember that it's not always better on the other side of the fence.

_savvygirl_15 on 9/28/2008 2:10:34 PM

I'm 12 and I'm 5'1 and im not even close to being the tallest or the shortest

brunettee on 9/28/2008 2:59:55 PM

well this is kinda rude(how u said guys like short girls better) cuz im only 12 and 5'10". i would LOVE to be shorter.
so be happy. and face it-theres really nothing to do about it.

purplecrazed on 9/28/2008 3:23:47 PM

UGH!

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/28/2008 3:53:10 PM

Im short too.

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/28/2008 3:53:22 PM

im 12 and 411 3/4 i hate it. o well mi class is like wicked short thou so i dont have to worry bout liking a really tall guy

cookingirl490 on 9/28/2008 3:57:16 PM

Please don't worry to much!! I am thirteen in one month and i am only 4"8! just think about it..... all the guys will alwayse be taller than you and they like feeling taller.Dont think you have stoped growing because chances are you havent even got to your growth spert yet.

soccerluv1315 on 9/28/2008 4:07:58 PM

welll something simular goes on with me I have short hair like a boy but when people see me they say wow your gorgeaous you should be a model are you 20 years old and I'm only 12 in the 7th and they're are guys who try to date me way older than me trust me kinda hard to deal with

Mizz.Nellie on 9/28/2008 4:53:32 PM

yea well im not extremely short but im extremely tall im 5'9 and im only twelve and don't have my period and haven't done my major growing yet but you are lucky because a girl in my gym class looked at my size on my pants and shirt and she told everybody i was extremely fat and im not im just tall be happy with who you are you've got other values so consider yourself lucky to be short ive always wandered what it was like to be short and remember everyone is different and thats just the way you are so love it!!!!!!!!!

alicecullenm on 9/28/2008 4:55:04 PM

I used to hate my heighth! Hate it! I'm 4'11 and a quarter...lol. and im and 8th grader. And alot of times i don't play a lot in sports is just because im short. LIke in volleyball I don't play alot because I'm too short. And my coach told me that too. She was like i want heighth. But now i've just accepted it and I kinda like being short.

BasketballGirl on 9/28/2008 5:19:32 PM

im 12 and im 5'2". i never thought about it (being short) that way but now im glad i wont get much taller! i already have my period and my mom is only 5'3" so thats good! my friend anna always complains about being short but now i can tell her all the good things about it! but right now im like average height at my school cuz im only in 7th grade although a lot of my friends r taller than me... at least the guys will still get taller! (i like guys to be taller then me!)

novemberbaby164 on 9/28/2008 5:42:24 PM

hey, wait, is it true you don't grow much after your period? that sucks for me than

cutiechic525 on 9/28/2008 5:50:08 PM

wow...i'm 11 and i'm 5'4 and i'm still growing!
sometimes i like being tall (most of the times i do)
but for some reason,very few times i wish i was shorter...that's why i have a little bit of belly pudge,cuz i'm gonna get taller

nirvanaluver on 9/28/2008 6:00:17 PM

Hey Girlfriend! Me2 I am as tall as you and most peole think f me as weak or stupid (FYI I can honstly say that I am *sorry for seeming vain* smarter thamn many kids at my school who are 6 ft. SIZE DONT MATTER!

scribblez_27 on 9/28/2008 6:06:33 PM

I am 4'6" and i am 13 but ill grow soon

kittens000 on 9/28/2008 6:21:14 PM

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coca08 on 9/28/2008 8:04:12 PM

Hey it's ok to be short, you still got a while untill your an adult, so don't worry. Hey there is a joke that I heard from somebody when I said that I was short. They said that the advantage of being short is that you're the last one to get wet when it rains! LOL!! What I'm trying to say is instead of looking at the negitives look at the postives.
GOOD LUCK!!

abhonorollgirl on 9/28/2008 8:27:18 PM

just think you can date any one you want becasur you will be shorter then them

sosierox on 9/28/2008 8:46:06 PM

I'm like the oppostite I'm way to all for my age...I'm 12 and 5'6. It kinda sucks. Plus I look older and its not just my height. Its sooo annoying when I'm talking to someone and I tell them my age and there like "wow your TWELVE? I thought you were 14 or 15!" Trust me your lucky your short...I wish I was short!

prettybeachgirl on 9/28/2008 9:13:38 PM

p0lk@dots-
lolz u sound like me! what grade are you in??? im in sixth and same height as u.

purplecrazed on 9/28/2008 9:52:51 PM

MOD
i said this before but it wasnt posted:
this article is kinda offensive, cuz its kinda saying being short is better than being tall. i know the person who answered this was just trying to reassure the girl who asked it that it was okay to be short, but its not very nice. not everyone is short. i just wanted to say

 

Hey babes, its not an article,its advice.I obviously wasnt making a generalization,if it wasa girl complaining about how tall she is, then the advice would be altered to make her feel better about herself. I know not everyone is short,but this advice was given to HER and she is short. Sorry if I offended you, I just preferto write things specific to a situation instead of giving a general, unthoughtgul response you know? xo JANA

purplecrazed on 9/28/2008 9:55:54 PM

Jana-
okay! sorry i complained.Smile

purplecrazed on 9/28/2008 10:06:48 PM

You guys think you're short? I'm 15 ½ and I'm only 5'1"! I got my temps and I have to put the seat as far up as it can go. But I have to say, I love being short. Like Jana said, you get cute clothes on sale (like Aeropostale usually has sales for short jeans- $10-15!). And you can wear heels if you want (or if you can walk in them...). And I talked to my guy friend about it and he said that guys don't look at how short a girl is, but if a girl is tall that MIGHT make a difference, but not really. And I have two friends from work who are verrry short. They're siblings, the guy is 16 ½ and the girl is 14. The guy is about my height, maybe an inch or two taller, and the girl is very short. She's probably 4 foot something. She said that a lot of people ask her how old she is, or if they guess they'll guess 7! So I guess neither side is perfect....

sunshine...the.great.escape on 9/28/2008 10:26:23 PM

Being short is better than being tall when you're thirteen. Most cute guys are still pretty short, since they haven't gone into their growing spurts yet. Yeah, some might have, but not in my grade! I'm in seventh grade and I'm 5'4" (maybe 5'3"). I am at least 2 inches taller than my crush, and 4 inches taller than another cute guy at my school. The scary part is, almost all the girls in my grade are my hieght or taller. Sure, it's fun to be tall sometimes, but being short can be beneficial.

kiaralilly on 9/28/2008 11:36:50 PM

yeah being short has it's advantages. i'm only 4'11" and my boyfriend is SO protective! like this one time the girls in his class where pelting volleyballs at us and he was SUPER angry when one got me in the leg and he chased all 8 girls out of the gym. it was so sweet of him to do it Smile but then again i can barely block in volleyball. i guess being short has it's pros and cons just like being tall.

Pepsi1252 on 9/29/2008 9:20:55 AM

hey im short to n 13 so dnt feel bad!!!! if it makes u feel ne better a gurl n mi grade is shorter than u so dnt feel bad.and it can be an advantage sumtimes.

vollyball~gurl~14 on 9/29/2008 11:29:49 AM

MOD!!! I hav a prob!
Last night i started freaking out thinking of what mit happn if i got my period at soccer practice with only male coaches and porter potties or swimteam! my coach is really strict and i dont want to tell her. what should i do? should I keep some in my bags? i dont want people to see them! PlEASE HELP!

 

keep a pad in your bag. Smile L

magnusgirl on 9/29/2008 3:17:55 PM

Im 10 and im 5'2 and I love it! People always come up to me and say, "You're so tall!!!" Its really fun. I mean, my bf is shorter than me and its ok. In basketball, all the coaches want me to be on their team lol.
---basketballbabe
P.S. Check out my profile!

basketballbabe on 9/29/2008 3:44:07 PM

im 12 and 5'4"
does this mean no boys will ever like me? thanks for the advice GL it made my mad. not all boys like short people. in fact, if your under 5 feet and your 13, none of the boys in my school would even look at you if you were that short. people in my grade like long, lean, and leggy. me! short people get teased a lot. sooo lucky im not like that. and GL, by saying boys like short girls better, thats not at all true. not in all cases. like mine

bringiton97 on 9/29/2008 3:50:39 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
Is it true you stop getting taller when you get your period?

 

Yes. You won't continue to grow that much but maybe a little Smile Laura

emily96 on 9/29/2008 4:26:31 PM

i'm super short, too! i'm no more than five feet (i'm probably about 4'11") and i'm thirteen. but i'm ok with it. i'd really be really short than really tall! and all of the guys that i like are really short, thankfully! Laughing

ineedmuzic17 on 9/29/2008 5:02:43 PM

hey don't worry you will def grow this girl who is friends with my older bro she is 18 is only 4ft 10 and she was even shorter when she was 13

bee88 on 9/29/2008 5:12:40 PM

.:.:.:.:.:.MOD.:.:.:.:.:.
my 13th birthday is in november. got any awesome party ideas?! thanks! luv ya!

 

How about a Fall themed bash? You can bob for apples, collect pretty leaves, and make fun Autumn colored jewelry.

PEACE OUT!


Cassie





novemberbaby164 on 9/29/2008 5:18:42 PM

i hear ya loud'n clear!i'm only 13 and i'm only 4'11 and i have my period. the doctor says i'm only supposed to get to 5'2. It stinks!!!but i always remember that i was made specialy and there's nothing i can do about it. look on the bright side you won't have to worry a bout guys bein taller than you!;)

liv212 on 9/29/2008 5:24:32 PM

Aww, girl, I sure know what you mean.
I am 14 and only 4'10.
People will always come up to me and ask me either a) how tall I am, or b) just kind of state the obvious and say that I'm short.
Doesn't it just make you want to scream at them, "I'VE NOTICED!!!"
I usually come back with something smart, like ''and you're a stater of the obvious'' or ''do you work in an observatory? Because you're extremely observant.'' Smile
If it helps, here's a trivia fact:: shorter people have longer lifespans than taller ones!
*Looks up at very tall dude* ''*Gulp*...Sorry...''
xDD

Legally Brunette ♥ on 9/29/2008 5:37:29 PM

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thanks for the awesome party idea! i got another question. about a week and a half ago i got back together with my ex but my parents dont really like him like at all. they dont no yet and i dont want them to but i know i should tell them. my friend got grounded for not telling her mom about her bf and when i told my mom she said "us moms just like to know whats going on in ur lives" and i said "ya but then u will like freak out when we tell u" and my mom said "y would i freak out?" and i didnt know what to say. so i know i gotta tell her but i dont know what to say. got any ideas?! thanks! luv ya!

 

I think you should always try to be honest with your parents. It's just easier to tell the truth. Tell your mom that you guys got back together and ask her to respect your happiness. If she gets really mad, explain that you want to keep her in the know with what's going on in your life and you would like it if she could just not freak out.


PEACE OUT!

Cassie

novemberbaby164 on 9/29/2008 5:45:35 PM

.:.:.:.:.:.Cassie.:.:.:.:.:.
thanks so much for everything!!! i will deffinately tell her... *gulp*

novemberbaby164 on 9/29/2008 6:02:11 PM

Yeah I know how you feel. I'm 13 and 4'11 and a half! But I like bieng tiny. My friend always tells me that I'm super small and cute, and he's like super tall! I'm still growing so thats a plus! i'm happy with growing at least to 5'4 -5'5 (average hieght)! Just embrace your shortness! Its what makes you unique!

Shorty82595 on 9/29/2008 6:07:12 PM

I consider myself average height, but I look taller than I am because I have really limbs. Some of my friends are short and they hate it. I like my height. Not too tall, nor too short.

Banapple7 on 9/29/2008 6:16:03 PM

Shes right. It would be a little akward if you were taller than your (future) boyfriend. I have a friend thats really tall for her age so its hard for her to find jeans because the longer there are, the wider the hips. She doesn't have fully developed hips yet so she would have to wear an big belt. Eventually you'll grow..

Fluffy on 9/29/2008 6:20:03 PM

its true. I am 5 foot 6 at 12 years old. and most guys in my class.... except for my BF, (who is shorter than me...) LUV petit girls!

Besides. HIGHT DOES NOT MATTER! IT DOES NOT AFFECT YOUR PERSONALITY. SO LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT!

star111 on 9/29/2008 6:33:35 PM



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