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BY ANDREA T. ON 9/23/2008 6:07:00 PM 35 COMMENTS
i've heard of that disease. it seems so scary
baseballchicky16 on 9/23/2008 6:32:04 PM
my grandma has that too and its really sad!! my mom goes to see her pretty much once or twice a month. they live on the other side of the country. its really sad to see my mom crying about her.
bananalvr1234 on 9/23/2008 6:33:31 PM
My great- grandma forgets things a lot... she doesn't have Alzheimers, she's just old. 94! She has to o through every single name in the family until she gets to mine.
girscouts2664 on 9/23/2008 6:41:36 PM
Hey, I am so sorry that you are going through that. My great grandma and grampa both dealt with that so i know a little about how you are feeling. The best thing i can tell you is that it will get better. Trust me- it won't always feel like it, but you just have to give your mom time before she is able to talk about it. If it is really upsetting for you and your mom is still unable to talk about it, I would seriously consider going to a counselor or talking to another family member or firend about it. I know it helped me out a lot to talk about things like that. I hope it gets better and you have a happier time of things!!
pacotaco1 on 9/23/2008 6:51:17 PM
aww im so sorry. my grandma had alzheimers too, and it was so hard for my family, especially my dad. for example, she'd ask me how school was, and i'd answer her. then a few minutes later, she'd ask me again. it was definately hard, but it does help to remember what a long and productive life she lived. trust me, it helped me
archuletafanxo1713 on 9/23/2008 6:59:24 PM
My gradpa passed away a few yrs. ago from it I barly remember him at home. He lived in a care home and came home on holidays. It got bad but I am ok with it it someing that grows on you. You probaly don't understand but you will have memoreis I know so much about and I always can tell people about what is going on. You will be able to help peole in the future imbrace it.
volleygal on 9/23/2008 7:07:31 PM
cross_country_luver on 9/23/2008 7:09:16 PM
I use to joke about this with my mom. I said it's something old people get, but now I know how serious it is...I thought it was just forgetfulness.
MunkQoo on 9/23/2008 7:34:51 PM
aww. my bff rachel's grandpa has alzheimers.
~iheartcharlie~ on 9/23/2008 7:37:29 PM
icepanda23 on 9/23/2008 7:56:10 PM
The best thing for you to do is to make sure your Grandmother is happy. Even if she forgets things, listen to what she says and share your daily stories.
fluteplaya101 on 9/23/2008 8:07:21 PM
Lettuce on 9/23/2008 8:10:05 PM
I'm so so so so so sorry. i lost my gradfather to that last month. It's very hard I know. Be thankful that at least she's not in pain, thats what my grandfather said when he was diagnosed. xoxo Dancin Devil
Dancing_Devil on 9/23/2008 8:16:30 PM
omgg that stinks! my aunt has that but we were never close. take Jana's advice!
heyyyyyyy on 9/23/2008 8:21:08 PM
a friend of mine, her grandma has it so she has to live at my friend's house now. my friend's parents finished their basement so she could have her bedroom down there so her grandma could have her old room. and since my friend's parents r working, in the summer especially, she has to help her a lot. i feel so bad for her. she has to give up a lot of her time.
lilgingerhhs193 on 9/23/2008 8:44:12 PM
Hey, don't feel scared or anything, but i just lost my grandfather on september 21st, and he had alzheimers disease. so make every moment you spend with your grandmother count, and just be prepared for anything to happen. I know its hard, but just try your best to be patient with her because it isn't her fault that she is loosing her memory.
smiling_kt_bug on 9/23/2008 9:06:26 PM
i thinks that's so sad, i really hope that doesn't happen to anyone else in your family
Kagura on 9/23/2008 9:09:37 PM
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bubbleybop3434 on 9/23/2008 9:13:32 PM
My mom works in a nursing home, and she see's this kind of thing all the time. I go to her work and play the piano for all the old folks sometimes... and it's really weird because sometimes someone with that disease will be talking to me, telling me I did a wonderful job, and then walk away... but 10 mintues later they'll come back and say the same thing! Or, the same person might ask me what instrument I'm playing. It's just a fact of life. Be there for your grandma and like Jana suggested, I would make a scrapbook and show it to her from time to time.
Lexy5 on 9/23/2008 9:16:36 PM
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sweetiehearts1212 on 9/23/2008 9:28:57 PM
weeell that SUCKS. I have no idea what I woul dod if that happened to any of my family!
frankensteingirl on 9/23/2008 10:21:34 PM
Hey, My grandma got Alzheimers in her 60's. She was diagnosed when i was younger than 1. Ever since we've been visiting the local nursing home which my grandma has been in for about 13 years. We visited her everyday to feed her dinner, because she couldn't feed herself, talk, or walk. She was bed ridden. My mother and my aunt would trade, My mom visit my grandma monday, my aunt tuesday, my mom wensday, e.c.t. They were the most caring, generous, and un-selfish people i know. The only reason my grandma lived so long was because of us visiting her. Even she couldn't talk to tell us this, I know she hung in there because she saw how much we cared about her and how much we loved her, and that brought her through the hard times. Just recently, we got a call that my grandmother has had a misfire in the brain, and past away. She was in perfect condition, or whatever condition was perfect at that time. This was a surprise, but a releif, because she didnt have to suffer in that way anymore. I miss my grandmother, but she lived longer than any other alzheimers patient i know, because of the love and support of her family. Maybe the only grandma i knew was the one in the nursing home bed, not being able to have a conversation with me, but i knew how strong my grandma was, and her love for me. I was her little grand-baby, and i love her. So visit your local nursing home. I know some people might say "I'm not going in to some old people home so I can tell them my name...then tell them again 5 minutes later because they forgot it." But you dont know how much it makes there day, and how much the love helps them. anyway, i just wanted to share that with you, i hope ur inspired.
annamariedex on 9/24/2008 9:01:18 PM
that is so sad, i've seen it with my friends grandparents before. im sorry.
fashionista8613 on 9/24/2008 10:58:23 PM
lilybelle00 on 9/25/2008 6:56:15 AM
aww that's so sad i'm so sorry i hope everything gets better
sparky4me on 9/25/2008 1:05:03 PM
my grandma has alzheimer's too. she's had it for 10 yrs and can't really do much of anything. my grandpa has to feed her and bathe her. i know it's wierd being around them, but their still our grandmas...try to make ur grandma laugh, even if it means doin sumtin stupid. it makes the whole family feel better. stay strong, i know what it's like.
sportygal13 on 9/26/2008 8:02:54 PM
my great grandmother is going throught the same thing. She forgets a lot of stuff. I think my grandpa is taking this the hardest. After all that is his mother. I feel really bad for him because she dosent want to see him. She think that he is going to put her in a home. TY for listening gorgously_green12
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swimbabi94 on 9/27/2008 8:16:39 AM
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lipgloss0018 on 9/27/2008 12:31:05 PM
Hey, my grandma died of that. It was really hard because i never knew her. i was 4 when she died, and she had it so bad that by the time i was born she had no idea who i was. one day my older sisters asked her if she wanted to play go fish with them. she said yes but they had to teach her how to play. so they taught her, played a bit, then went home. the next day they asked her if she wanted to play go fish and she said she didn't know how. my sisters got upset because they had just taught her the day before. it's really sad. :*(
Half Blood Princess on 9/28/2008 5:35:46 PM
lipgloss~ i was also in a situation where i had to let down a guy i barley knew. in this sitch, i would trust your bestie and not go out with him. if he asks you out, tell him u don't go out with people u dont know well. DONT tell him ur parents wont let u date unless thats true, cuz then he might tell and no one (say, ur crush) will ask you out cuz they think u cant. trust me, u do NOT wanna go there. Anyways, if he tries to hang out with u to "get 2 know" u, tell him ur busy. any excuse will do. good luck!
Half Blood Princess on 9/28/2008 5:40:43 PM
my gramma has that disease. she thinks my mom is her sister and has no idea who me or my siblings are. the amazing thing is, she can read. she can read perfectly. so @ the nursing home we always bring her something to read. its a blessing, in a way, because my grandfather passed before her, so she will never have to grieve his death, and vice versa.
luv2shop112 on 10/9/2008 9:22:40 PM
lip gloss-- its probably a bad idea to go out w. a bffs ex-lover anyway!! forget this guy!!
luv2shop112 on 10/9/2008 9:24:00 PM
i feel for you!!! just remember that she is still your Gran and that you still love her, and a disease can't get in the way of that! Plus, Gran is prob. going through some soul-searching so mayb give her some space! kay? kay. and btw, dont worry. u r a good granddaughter to be sooooo concerened! Yur Welcome, princess_peach_98
princess_peach_98 on 10/12/2008 5:54:11 PM
my grandma had that it was really hard for me beacause i was young when sh first got it so ever since i can remeber she could never remeber me and then she finally died it was so hard on my family for two reasons 1 my family is VERY close and 2 becaus my grandpa died 20 days before her I fell so help less sometimes
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