Andrea T.

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Ask Bill & Dave

My friends told me my BF cheats on me. I asked him and he denied it, saying he would never cheat. Are my friends who I think they are? Could my BF be cheating?

BILL: Unfortunately, cheating without getting caught can be a thrill for some guys. And show me a cheater—I’ll show you a liar. So if your BF truly is cheating, it’s doubtful he’ll ’fess up. If you want to play this game until you come across some hard evidence, that’s up to you.

DAVE: Make a list of who told you what, and determine if anyone has something to gain by deceiving you. As long as your friends are true to you, I’d speculate that your boyfriend is jerking you around. But maybe your buds have ulterior motives I don’t know about. Only you can make the final decision about who is giving you the straight story.

BY ANDREA T. ON 9/20/2008 9:21:00 AM 75 COMMENTS

75 READER COMMENTS

My BF cheated on me and denied it and when i didn't beleive him he dumped me. But that was ok cuz he is an idiot, and he's disgusting!

oppositejr101 on 9/20/2008 9:56:04 AM

well I would for sure trust your instincs.

basketballchic on 9/20/2008 10:31:46 AM

well are they ur bffs or ur bfs or ur fs?? iz ur boy da type that wod

mrsjoejonas129 on 9/20/2008 10:46:57 AM

man, sorry to hear about that...

aNNie51695 on 9/20/2008 11:11:12 AM

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Theres some white stuff in my underwear is taht discharge?

brunettee on 9/20/2008 12:15:29 PM

omg i'd like go incagnito and ask him wat he is doing this weekend and if he says that he's busy then be like oh watcha doing and if he like hesitates then like ask him who's he goin with and you should like follow him to were he's going and if it's to a girls house then you should like record him going so you can show him later....and then be like oh yea that's you were over see ya ba-bye!

mairyfairy25 on 9/20/2008 12:28:31 PM

I had this problem like this with my BF and he was cheating on me but if you trust him than just don't worry about it.

~♥twilight♥~ on 9/20/2008 12:40:14 PM

**MOD***
how do you know when a guy likes you? like i suck and figuring this out. a MOD told me yesterday that she thought this one guy liked me but i'm not sure. HOW DO I FIGURE IT OUT!!??? plus how do you know if guys are flirting with you?

There is no definite way to figure it out. If there were, our lives would be much less complicated. You just have to read the signals as best you can.

kittycat102 on 9/20/2008 1:23:48 PM

he is not a very truthful [erson you've gotta find out chica

Iszy98 on 9/20/2008 2:34:26 PM

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I'm a freshmen in high school and there's this senior in my English class who's really cute and really nice, he's friends with my brothers too. We talk sometime and he even offered me a ride home one day (i couldn't talk it i was going to a party.) And there's a dance coming up soon. I have a feeling he's going to ask me and if he does i don't know if it's the right thing to go out with a boy 4 years older than me. The girls who do that don't have the best reputation, and i still want to be treated the same. What should i do?

Fierce on 9/20/2008 2:48:34 PM

yumyumyum I'm making chocolate chip cookies.

frankensteingirl on 9/20/2008 2:56:15 PM

mod!
ok so there's this guy that i like. we always talk in honors algebra and he's really cool and funny. but i just found out he's dropping out of honors cause it's too hard! we don't have lunch or any other classes together so idk what to do. he's also really popular and i'm afraid if we don't talk a lot he'll sorta like forget who i am...
please help!

luv4coco on 9/20/2008 4:08:04 PM

Fierce~
i think u should go with ur gut feeling. if u dont wanna be known as the kinda girl that goes out with guys way older then dont do it but if u dont care then go for it! but in my opinion 4 years if kinda a lot. i would go more then 2 or 3 years older.
(o and i dont really have the best reputation right now cuz i am going out with this one guy that like everybody hates and hes my ex. so ya. but im not really the kinda person who cares what other people think. its really ur own decision)

novemberbaby164 on 9/20/2008 4:10:19 PM

MODERRATORS
i love purity rings they r so cute
i asked my mom if i cood get 1 and she said it was 2 public of a way 2 show tht i wanna stay a virgin
do u think i ould wear a bracelet or something everyday as purity jewlery w/o telling her????

It doesn't matter what it means to everyone else, what's important is that you know what it stands for. If you want to do that, I think it is a good idea.

live life love life cuz you only have 1 life on 9/20/2008 4:14:30 PM

Fierce on 9/20/2008 4:37:06 PM

the guy in the picture is really cute! lol! ♥

novemberbaby164 on 9/20/2008 6:08:14 PM

FIERCE
DID YOU SAY FOUR YEARS OLDER?
YOU KNOW MILEY IS DOING FIVE RIGHT?

crazy_MoNKey on 9/20/2008 6:35:25 PM

***MOD****
are there any definate signs that boys send off to tell girls they like them? also how can you get boys to give clear signals, not one this day then completly ignores you the next day??
cuz i think these 2 guys like me (i would only go out wit 1 of them tho, i dont rly like the other one) and i wanna know!!

Hey girl!

Here are some tips to help you out. http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/18/The-Secret-Language-Of-Like.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2007/11/17/Flirting101.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/10-Tips-To-Talkin.aspx

<3 Brianna

kittycat102 on 9/20/2008 6:50:24 PM

MOD-- Thank you so much for FiNaLy approving my profile! It took 3 months! Oh and I also found out that my now x-crush HAS A GIRLFRIEND!! oh well... I cant wait to see my avatar in action ! And im checking up on all the new stories!

P.S oh I LOVE this months magazine!!!!

lexieloo2 on 9/20/2008 7:16:01 PM

CHECK OUT MY PROFILE!!!

girscouts2664 on 9/20/2008 9:13:39 PM

MOD-MOD-MOD-(ashley?)MOD-MOD-MOD
Hey are you there i could use a lit(lot) of help on a problem i have. (how many times do you get that a day? lol)

jonaslxoxvxe on 9/20/2008 9:32:08 PM

Oh do you have mods this late? oops maybe not!

jonaslxoxvxe on 9/20/2008 9:34:25 PM

Dear Ashley (MOD),
I like your name but anyways I have 2 problems in my life right now and I was wondering if you could help me.
Ok, the first one is that there's this guy that keeps annoying the heck out of me. Like poking me on the underside of my ribs, plain poking, and other things. What's up with that???
The other problem is that I like this guy, and he's like a friend of mine. We talk alot about everything. I keep liking him more and more each day. I think he likes me too. What do you think??

GuitarGurl48 on 9/20/2008 10:06:52 PM

ask them who hes cheating u with then go 2 that girl and ask her if shes going out with him!
then you'll have proof,and if he really is,gurl
drop him like a hot potato,he so aint worth no second of ur time

Lil' Hottie on 9/20/2008 10:53:39 PM

MOD!! <3

any tips for my first ever homecoming?
im so excited. i have a brand new bf
and the theme is 80s

ajitators on 9/21/2008 2:01:37 AM

I like this one guy i mean really like him and i called him one time saying i had a crush on him and i have been hiding in shame. How do i flirt and come out from my shy side? Help me

chloeilona on 9/21/2008 2:12:16 AM

mod help me

this guy i love him so much he says he loves me too but were not dating he said "dont worry id never hurt you" i believe him but idk me loving him is hurting me because were not together and he dated my bffltid my other friend said im blined by love and the other said he dose love me help me please

kk4ever on 9/21/2008 9:08:37 AM

Try to sneak the answer out of him. Follow him around and ask him to do stuff all the time. To make sure he can't be cheating.

madpick on 9/21/2008 9:21:27 AM

MODERATORS

ok so i asked my mom 4 a purity ring she said no she said tht its 2 public of a way 2 stay i wanna stay a virgin

i am planning on wearing a piece of jewelery 4 purity jewlery wood u reccomened a bracelet or a necklace???

live life love life cuz you only have 1 life on 9/21/2008 11:41:54 AM

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okay well my boyfriend and i go to the same church but we don't go to the same school... we never get to hang out at all because my parents are super strict! we talk on aim all the time but it's really not the same. how do i get my parents to bend their 'rules' a little bit?
xox queenbee7715

queenbee7715 on 9/21/2008 1:38:10 PM

why are guys always like that?

new cinderella on 9/21/2008 1:40:57 PM

MOD!!! and girls!
Ok, I think I'm like in love with my best guy friend, which can be problematic enough but add in the fact that he's dating my best friend. I don't know what to do. I've been trying to get over him for forever but he's always the one I think and dream about. No matter what I do he's always there, making me swoon. It doesn't help that I go to an all girls high school so I don't get to meet new guys very often. What should I do?

writerforever on 9/21/2008 3:03:22 PM

I love GL but i'd like it more if there was more make-up tips!

runnergirl442 on 9/21/2008 4:11:19 PM

OMG the same thing happened 2 my sister! Now the whole thing has blown over... I would definitely say trust your instincts. If this guy is acting suspicious, you should talk to him about the situation.

ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/21/2008 4:11:49 PM

y rnt my comments comin up?!?!?!?!?!

GuitarGurl48 on 9/21/2008 4:39:41 PM

MODERATORS

ok so i posted a comment a long time ago on this blog it said tht i d sided 2 wear a piece of purity jewlery wood u recomened a bracelet or a necklace????

live life love life cuz you only have 1 life on 9/21/2008 5:25:41 PM

novemberbaby164---
i know, he is cute!
lol
♥

emily96 on 9/21/2008 6:10:45 PM

Take my quiz please. It's different, but cool.

1. What's the color(s) of your bra(s)?
2. Have you slept naked before?
3. If yes, did you get caught? By who?
4. What did they say or do?
5. Got a BF? Name?
6. Got a crush? Name?
7. Size of boobs, I mean bra?
8. Color of your hair "down there"?
9. Have you ever walked around the house or other places naked?
10. Was anyone there? Yes, who?

My Answers:

1. What's the color(s) of your bra(s)?
~Most white, gray, and blue
2. Have you slept naked before?
~Not yet, but I'm going to try tonight.
3. If yes, did you get caught? By who?
~Not caught yet. LOL.
4. What did they say or do?
~Not there yet. LOL!
5. Got a BF? Name?
Nope.
6. Got a crush? Name?
YEA!!! Joe.
7. Size of boobs, I mean bra?
34A
8. Color of your hair "down there"?
Dark brown/black
9. Have you ever walked around the house or other places naked?
Once or twice.
10. Was anyone there? Yes, who?
No one was there.

GuitarGurl48 on 9/21/2008 7:55:51 PM

sorry GuitarGurl48 but i am not answering some perverted quiz

rox_my_sox on 9/21/2008 8:39:24 PM

Mod..
well i recently swiched schools for my highschool years. And im loving it! but I have a question.. At this school the guys really like me, i've even been asked to homecomming by the 3 cutest guys in 9th grade! And i'm been hanging out with the cool kids.. at my old school it wasn't like that. None of the guys liked me, and i hung out with just the normal kids, not the popular ones... so my question is... what made the difference?
Thanks mod!

Hey babes, what has probably happend is you are being yourself. Going to a new school means you get to start over.Chances are your confidence has you glowing and people are noticing. xo JANA

Prengles on 9/21/2008 8:58:08 PM

Mod! I need some help!
I like this kid. hes a 7th grader. im a freashman, but 15. i no. =(. but ive known him 4 bout a year. hes even been 2 my house 4 a party when i was still im middle school. now, this year, were in the same dance classes! ne advice? iguess, for supressin my love for a kid SO much younger thn me! thxs, xoxoxox, emily ♥

Hey babes, i think for right now you should just lie low and focus on other things. That 2 year difference wont be a big deal when youre older, but right now the maturity gab is far too large for a healthy relationship to work. I would spend time with friends and focus on your school work, Its ok to like him from afar, just dont get involved. xo JANA

cookiesandcream on 9/21/2008 9:00:44 PM

MOD: Do you have time to answer a question?

Sure babes, just post it. xo JANA

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 9:39:57 PM

Jana: So i had a guyfriend i had a crush on for 2 years. well, my username has his name in it and i just found out he likes another girl and i like another guy now, so i need to change my username and everytime i try, it says read only. i also like this guy named andrew, well i think he likes me too, but i cant tell. the other day, he accidently hit me with his pencil and he said sorry like, 5 times! he is really sweet and my friends all really like him too unlike how they felt about charlie. we both like the beatles and the who and the same music and we talk alot. he also stares at me.i think charlie likes me now and i dont like him all but as a friend and i dont want him to get jealous. i mean, he talks to me alot more and i don think he likes andrew. i dont want him to be jealous, i just want to be his friend!
so here r my q's.
1)How can i change my username
2) Does andrew like me or not
3) Do u think charlie's jealous

Hey babes, i am not sure how to change your username and as for andrew, he probably apologized so many times because a pencil is a sharp object that could have seriously hurt you. As for Charlie, he has no reason to be jealous, you arent dating him so he has no reason to be and if you dont like him then you dont like him, you dont owe him anything. xox JANA

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 10:02:09 PM

Mod mod mod mod!!! OK so i like this guy and he likes me back(my friend asked him) and tomorrow he may ask me out but idk if i want to go out with him to make my ex jealous or because i really like him! how do u know if you really like someone

Hey babe, if you have to ask yourself this then I dont think you really want to date him.If you really like him you would have NO hesitancy about it. xoxo JANA

dancechick505 on 9/21/2008 10:02:09 PM

guitargurl48: that sounds like something people should keep to themselves.

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 10:04:42 PM

hey,yo,hola,bonjour,guentenburger,holla,the price is right, come on down, hi. im very random.hey

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 10:07:18 PM

yos hey how are you im goin to bed at 9:30 tonight. ugh, im tired but i want an answer to my question.

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 10:12:43 PM

thanks jana, i hope i do find a way to change my username!

~iheartcharlie~ on 9/21/2008 10:31:21 PM

live life love life cuz you only have 1 life-
I'd say a necklace cuz to me it's easier to wear. u never have to take a necklace off (except for sports) unless you want to, but for bracelets they can get in the way of things sometimes. like doing laundry, washing dishes or kneading dough (don't ask me why u'd be kneading dough... I'm just giving an example)

M... on 9/21/2008 11:32:12 PM

1. What's the color(s) of your bra(s)? uh, my regular bras are white, but my sports bras are light pink, bright pink, and grey
2. Have you slept naked before? probably a long time ago...
3. If yes, did you get caught? By who? no, if anyone did catch me, it'd be my family and they prob wouldn't care
4. What did they say or do? N/A
5. Got a BF? Name? no
6. Got a crush? Name? kinda, not really, idk. (I'm confused right now)
7. Size of boobs, I mean bra? 32A
8. Color of your hair "down there"? uh, dark brown (wow, how did u come up with these odd questions)
9. Have you ever walked around the house or other places naked? not that I can think of... except in my bathroom. know what's weird? I even feel uncomfortable walking around MY room naked... even with my door locked.
10. Was anyone there? Yes, who? no

M... on 9/21/2008 11:37:43 PM

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