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BY ANDREA T. ON 9/19/2008 5:41:00 PM 82 COMMENTS
Your so lucky! I would love to have a sleepover at my friend's house every weekend!
NYCBdancer on 9/19/2008 6:24:29 PM
hey i have a problem. i really i like this guy but he is like my best guy friend i can tell him almost evry thing but he does not like me. he was goin out with 1 of mi best friends 4 a bout 3 weeks then she broke up with him and he said that he still likes her but i like hem alot i hav sence we were in 4th grade what do i do???? help
curtriby22 on 9/19/2008 6:32:26 PM
kittycat102 on 9/19/2008 6:39:07 PM
ooo that sounds fun!!!! but i'm not a sleep over type of gal...
mairyfairy25 on 9/19/2008 7:29:54 PM
my friends started a movie night. we only watch good classics (from a loong time ago), so we all love em! its tonsa fun!
fashionista8613 on 9/19/2008 7:33:20 PM
ur so lucky, theres like no time to hang out with my friends.
sexy.volleyball.player on 9/19/2008 7:50:02 PM
flowert1o2 on 9/19/2008 8:15:28 PM
******MOD***** you guys did a giveaway for this summer or the last when you gave a summer camp away- i think it was wellness. do u know the name of the camp? thx.
girl24689 on 9/19/2008 8:42:19 PM
flowert1o2 on 9/19/2008 8:45:34 PM
Mod! I have 2 problems. 1) There's this guy that bugs me all the time. Like poking, sort of kicking, and other things. What's up with that? 2) The other one is that, I like this guy and he is my friend. I think he kind of likes me too because we talk about everything, and mess around. What do you think????
GuitarGurl48 on 9/19/2008 8:56:48 PM
MODDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!! ok. i went to the fair with my bff and she shows animals but then one of her older brother's friends was introduced to me and now i reallllllllly like him. but he barely knows me. my friend told me he's a computer wiz and is on it alot even though he is a farmer and i want his e mail. BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM i'm in the 8th grade and he is already on his second year of high school. but every time my bff tells me stuff about him (she knows i like him)it kind of upsets me because today she told me he is always walking around with other girls.and then i almost cry or get really angry.but i can't wait til i'm older to go out with him (and he is extra nice to me whenever we talk) but i think he only sees me as a child. (i'm really mature for my age....i'm told all the time) but i really want him to see me a little more serious! but i realllllllllllly like him! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pepsi1252 on 9/19/2008 9:15:25 PM
Mod ok so there's this guy who I like and he's really cute. His assigned seat is next to mine in art and he looks at whatever I'm drawing, and today he and the other guy were asking me whose drawing I liked better. do you think he likes me? and what should I say to hint that I like him?
Furler Fan on 9/19/2008 9:28:08 PM
lol, just not all in the same night! Good one.
MunkQoo on 9/19/2008 9:54:50 PM
Buh-Bah on 9/19/2008 10:47:27 PM
*********MOD********* Hey! I lost 10 lbs. in about 2 - 2 1/2 months (May-June), & I go to the gym & I eat healthy, but I stopped losing much weight after going to the gym. I've toned up... but I still have fat to lose! I'm 132 & 5'3" (almost 16)! Any ideas on how to lost some more weight? Thanks! ... I am doing in a healthy way btw!
actress1 on 9/19/2008 10:49:40 PM
I have a friend I really like and everyone says he likes me back!!! BUt I am scared to talk to him about it because if he doesnt like me it will screw up our friendship, and it will make my other friends feel wierd!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO??????
Sarah<3Europe on 9/19/2008 11:05:33 PM
MOD AN GIRLIES LAST YEAR I HAD 2 HUGE CRUSHES THIS YEAR I HAVE NO CLASSES WIT THEM THEY BOTH KNEW I LIKED THEM THEY STILL THINK I LIKE THEM BT I DONT I WANT 2 BE JUST FRIENDS BUT THEY HAVENT TALKIED 2 ME THIS WHOLE TIME (WE've BEEN IN SKOOL 4 5 WEEKS) BUT I STILL GET NERVOUS WHEN I SEE THEM OR LIKE I WATCH THEM 4ROM THE CORNRER OF MY EYE I KEEP TELLING MYSELF IM OVER THEM BT DEEP DOWN I KNOW IM NOT HOW CAN I GET OVER THEM 4 GOOD (THERE IS NO CUTE GUYS THIS YEAR)PLEASE HELP MY ONLY OTHER CRUSH IS NICK ANND JOE JONAS AND THATS NOT HELPING IT WIT ME THNX!!!
iluvcandy on 9/19/2008 11:47:57 PM
***************Mod **************** (or any 1) Okay so this guy @ school likes me and I realized over the summer that I liked him 2. He's really nice, funny and sweet but I don't no whether or not 2 go into something more w/ him. I don't want 2 screw up our friendship b/c it's really important to both of us!! THNX So much!!
Baton Puppy on 9/19/2008 11:49:27 PM
Sorry my last comment didn't have ANYTHING to do w/ the article. ANYWAY ~ U R so lucky that you can sleep over @ each other's house EVERY week! It would B soooo cool if I could do that w/ my friends!!
Baton Puppy on 9/19/2008 11:51:52 PM
MOD AN GIRLIES LAST YEAR I HAD 2 HUGE CRUSHES THIS YEAR I HAVE NO CLASSES WIT THEM THEY BOTH KNEW I LIKED THEM THEY STILL THINK I LIKE THEM BT I DONT I WANT 2 BE JUST FRIENDS BUT THEY HAVENT TALKIED 2 ME THIS WHOLE TIME (WE've BEEN IN SKOOL 4 5 WEEKS) BUT I STILL GET NERVOUS WHEN I SEE THEM OR LIKE I WATCH THEM 4ROM THE CORNRER OF MY EYE I KEEP TELLING MYSELF IM OVER THEM BT DEEP DOWN I KNOW IM NOT HOW CAN I GET OVER THEM 4 GOOD (THERE IS NO CUTE GUYS THIS YEAR)PLEASE HELP MY ONLY OTHER CRUSH IS NICK ANND JOE JONAS AND THATS NOT HELPING IT WIT ME
iluvcandy on 9/20/2008 12:43:19 AM
Umm, simple... find some other things to do.
ShopperSoccerGurl on 9/20/2008 11:50:24 AM
Hey, GL I just won a twinklet, and I wanna say Thx sooo much! My B-day is in 2 days, and i got my prize yesterday! thxx!!
EdwardsGirl on 9/20/2008 11:57:05 AM
For some sleepover ideas u should look at GL's totally awesome sleepover ideas.... there r some on the homepage right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
shopperlove5 on 9/20/2008 12:20:02 PM
65 READER COMMENTS ~MOD~ ! ! ! ok so i LOVE funky coloured eyeliner. The problem is that i have blue eyes, so everybody says to wear brown eye makeup, cause it will compliment my eyes. So what colour eyeliner can I wear thats still bright? summergirl1995 on 9/19/2008 9:07:21 PM sparky4me ~ya... thatz me also.... uhll on 9/19/2008 9:15:08 PM doz ne1 wannu chat??????? uhll on 9/19/2008 9:15:45 PM *Mod* I'm bi, and currently like this girl in my grade. She's completely the opposite of me: popular, witty, comfortable with herself. I get so tongue-tied around her. I know she's bi too, so she wouldn't get freaked out if she knew I like her, but I'm still so panicky all the time. What should I do? and we're all too small to talk to god on 9/19/2008 9:28:30 PM i don't have homecoming this year because i go to a lame school that is 7-9. and i'm in 9th. anyways. *********************MOD!!!******************************** ok. so i like this guy. and my friend said that he likes her when she was filling me in b/c i was gone over the past year at a different school in a diff state. and, like, i was trying to make eye contact, but he was staring at the desk caddy corner him. (i sit next to him, so the desk across from me...our desks are set up like 4 in a square shape). could this mean he likes me? and also, he and his friend were moving to another table, b/c they were jokingly trying to get another one of their friends to not sit where they wanted the first friend to sit (he sits next to me, remember)..and anyways, he was like 'come on, emily, let's move over there.'... could that mean he likes me, or is he just being nice b/c i'm extremely shy and i don't talk. ever. around him? and when ppl say that i hardly talk, he's like 'no. emily's just a diligent worker and you're distracting her'. idk.! i really am not sure.!!! and he always asks me questions about the work and i ask him questions and he looks at my paper for the hw assignment. and idk.
smiles are contagious; let's start an epidemic on 9/20/2008 2:34:53 PM
MOD! ***** OMG!! SORRY! hah. this is what i meant to send. i think i copied too much...hah. it wasn't answered last night so if you could answer it that would be fantabulous *********************MOD!!!******************************** ok. so i like this guy. and my friend said that he likes her when she was filling me in b/c i was gone over the past year at a different school in a diff state. and, like, i was trying to make eye contact, but he was staring at the desk caddy corner him. (i sit next to him, so the desk across from me...our desks are set up like 4 in a square shape). could this mean he likes me? and also, he and his friend were moving to another table, b/c they were jokingly trying to get another one of their friends to not sit where they wanted the first friend to sit (he sits next to me, remember)..and anyways, he was like 'come on, emily, let's move over there.'... could that mean he likes me, or is he just being nice b/c i'm extremely shy and i don't talk. ever. around him? and when ppl say that i hardly talk, he's like 'no. emily's just a diligent worker and you're distracting her'. idk.! i really am not sure.!!! and he always asks me questions about the work and i ask him questions and he looks at my paper for the hw assignment. and idk.
smiles are contagious; let's start an epidemic on 9/20/2008 2:36:30 PM
Edwardsgirl- Your birthday is in 2 days? cool mine is tomarrow
brunettee on 9/20/2008 2:57:38 PM
brunettee on 9/20/2008 2:58:27 PM
mod.!!! could you answer my question from 2.36 ? thaaaanks
smiles are contagious; let's start an epidemic on 9/20/2008 3:14:24 PM
kittycat102, i agree with Brianna. my grandma told me that when she was younger, a boy threw rocks at her and when they were in high school, he said he liked her and she said " do you remember when you threw rocks at me when i was younger, cause i do "
~iheartcharlie~ on 9/20/2008 3:47:47 PM
I wish that I could have a sleepover with my BFFs every weekend... But I have a lot of good friends-I don't really have a BFF. I have a friend that considers ME her BFF, but I just can't really consider her mine... She gets sorta annoying sometimes!
ineedmuzic17 on 9/20/2008 5:32:22 PM
Smiles are contagious; let's start an epidemic- Maybe, it kinda sounds like it, but it's hard to be sure. My name's Emily too, and I'm also quiet sometimes. But not really with my friends who I know kind of well, because I know I can't really mess up what I say as badly as with someone I'm not as close with. Idk if that makes sense lol.
efourn63 on 9/20/2008 6:03:40 PM
OMG!!!i used to have that same bedspread
nirvanaluver on 9/20/2008 6:17:09 PM
moosesrockj on 9/20/2008 6:48:11 PM
Do some Makeovers!!!!!! I always do that = the usuall , popcorn etc. we also gossip BIG TIME but no rumors and what is said in the room stays in the roomm. Also occassionally with my bf4l we play truth or dare... or in our case Truth or TRUTH. Thats when you pick truth #1 (you can say no to the question) or truth # 2 (you HAVE to answer the question no matter what!) We always answer no matter what. So I hope that helps!!! ~~~~ LeXiE LoO
lexieloo2 on 9/20/2008 7:19:59 PM
MOD i liked this guy for a year and he never caught on but my best friend's other friends say that he likes her now she tells me that she likes him but when i liked him she was like ewww hes so ugly ... and this kid is popular so i think she is doing it to be popular....
Dancingdollsx4 on 9/20/2008 8:03:09 PM
OMG I HAVE THE SAME BEDDING,also your right if i had that many sleepovers it would get boring.:-(
giebler on 9/20/2008 8:27:55 PM
Yeah, except I usually have one every week but with a different friend everytime. So it doesn't get that boring!
gloria626 on 9/20/2008 9:10:45 PM
Come check out my profile!!!
girscouts2664 on 9/20/2008 9:16:48 PM
Hey iluvcandy, Just approach them, and ask for their #, or email.
littlexteaxcups on 9/21/2008 12:03:59 AM
Hey Mod & Girls, I have this friend, and she is kinda self absorbed, idk what to do, cause when ever I just mention one thing about my life, she changes the subject on her self. Adn I'm constantly giving her advice, and I don't think she would do the same for me, but she's fun, and usualy nice. How should I talk to her?
littlexteaxcups on 9/21/2008 12:09:44 AM
-Mod Mod Mod- Hi ^^ Before I start, I would just like to say how much I, and I'm sure, many others, appreciate you guys ^^ Okay, now for the question. There's this girl down my street, and since I don't go to my neighborhood school, I never really met her. But we're the same grade, and same age. So the other day, when we finally met, we just started hanging out. But my dad freaked out just because we rode a scooter down the street sidewalk; not even leaving our neighborhood street. Now everytime she comes over, he yells at her to go away, and I feel horrible! Please help
jadedstar01 on 9/21/2008 9:53:56 AM
i haven't a sleepover in a long time because i'm so busy! i really miss them!
trulyoneofakind on 9/21/2008 10:03:33 AM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD*******8 so im having a party for my 14th b-day in 2 weeks...october 4th!!! so i was wondering what i should do at it. were going 2 go get our nails done @ a salon, and then im having a sleepover. the girls im inviting are all different. (im just using the 1st letter of their name) A is an all star cheerleader, and she is very energetic M is a total tomboy, except she loves gettin her nails done S&E are just normal, and they both love to dance. what should i do @ the party? nothing corny though cuz were all 14-15 years old! plz answer!!!
cheergurl4444 on 9/21/2008 12:40:18 PM
************MOD**********MOD***************MOD******** so im having a sleepover. what are the BEST pg-13 scary movies you have ever seen? when i say scary, i mean, anything && everything. disturbia is a great one, but i cant think of anything else
cheergurl4444 on 9/21/2008 1:13:34 PM
MOD I really like this guy in my class and we talk and joke around and laugh alot when we talk and I flirt alot. I think he might be flirting back, but I don't know. How can I tell if he is?
Always Team Edward!!!! on 9/21/2008 2:32:58 PM
heyy Mod. i'm really insecure about everything. like, i want to wear my really cute orange shirt. but i feel that its...i don't know.. low on me and i dont want people talking about me. and yesterday i painted my nails orange. and i feel like taking it off becuz i don't want people talking about it behind my back saying its ugly. what should i do???
baseballchicky16 on 9/21/2008 2:45:23 PM
I havent had many sleep overs. But when I do alot of the time we watch movies and talk. Sometimes read.
Rosie123 on 9/21/2008 2:55:08 PM
My sister and I have fun together all of the time, but sometimes she makes me mad and we fight. Could you help me to sort this out when we fight?
spottedleaf on 9/21/2008 4:58:23 PM
cheergurl4444 - Try a scary/comedy movie! Like Scary Movie or something along those lines. And if you are really bored and want to jazz it up a bit, try making a quiz throughout the movie and quizzing your friend on it at the end (and she can do the same for you)! And for all of you girls out there who just love their popcorn during their sleepover/movie nights, try coming up with 3 different popcorn combos! My fave is shredded cheese and ranch mixed in. YUM! It's fun to try out all the differnt things you and your bud cam come up with! (Just don't make too much, because if it turns out really bad you'll have to throw it away!)
Lexy5 on 9/21/2008 6:02:48 PM
MoD- Ok, um I have a question. A couple days ago at school I was in the hallway and my crush and his friend were walking in front of me. I was kinda staring at him, just becasuse, well, hes really cute. I think he felt I was looking at him, so he turned around--and just kinda looked. I think he smiled a little--but I'm not sure! I smiled at him though! Then a minute later he looked back again! Could this be sort of a clue that he might like me, or is he just creeped out now?? plz help, thank you : )
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