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My friend’s brother likes me. Should I let him know I like him back or just let it go?

First, ask your friend how she feels about it. If she is totally opposed to a relationship between you and her brother, respect that. After all, things could get pretty awkward if you and your friend’s brother were to break up—she’d be stuck in the middle, so it’s important to honor your friendship. But if your bud is fine with it, go ahead and let her brother know the feelings are mutual.

BY ANDREA T. ON 9/18/2008 5:00:00 PM 47 COMMENTS

47 READER COMMENTS

i ttly agree!

Endurancebabe18 on 9/18/2008 5:44:31 PM

Before you do, (if he hasn't told you already) Make sure you know he likes you. It would be pretty akward if he didn't. (According to television lol) And if he doesn't like you (Not saying he wont), the worst thing you can do is get mad at a guy for not liking you. Thats like getting mad at Zac Efron for not wanting to marry you.

Fluffy on 9/18/2008 6:26:17 PM

follow ur heart

have_a_heart on 9/18/2008 6:38:25 PM

its ok if u hate him tell him u like him as a friend and just that if u love him then say yes its ok to feel both ways

sbouyear101 on 9/18/2008 6:52:01 PM

had this same prob wow. It depends I guess. is it ur bffl that u spend every minute of the day with? If so I wouldn't suggest going out with her bro. But if it's just a girl u see only at school.... Well that's a different story. I would ;). 1st comment???? I hope!!!!

frankfurt8 on 9/18/2008 7:26:03 PM

yep good advice

fashionista8613 on 9/18/2008 7:40:46 PM

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ok last year when i was in 8th grade me and my friends kept prank calling this kid lets call him mike. now this year in 9th hes in one of my classes and i really am crushin on him. but today i found out her knows who kept calling him and i heard him call us stalkers. what can i do to convince him not to think that and to just talk to me and be at least friends?? please help me im soo sick of walking in to science class and him giving me these wierd looks!!!!!

whoa_its_lovee on 9/18/2008 9:10:55 PM

Same prob with me! But I'm moving in a few weeks, so in my case I probably shouldn't go any further. :-(

Lexy5 on 9/19/2008 9:57:35 AM

ya deff check with ur bud first!!!

novemberbaby164 on 9/19/2008 3:51:09 PM

If your iterested than tell him! DUH!!!!!!

madpick on 9/19/2008 4:38:39 PM

hmm same thing happening to me now

crazy_MoNKey on 9/19/2008 5:09:28 PM

I am like totally in love with my bff's brother...but he's like in high school and i'm in middle school,so,yeah

nirvanaluver on 9/19/2008 6:59:13 PM

MOD my BFF, Lynn's, twin brother, Bryan, has a crush on me! I know because I heard him talking to my friend, Jack, about how to ask me out when I wasn't with Lynn! I am so worried, I DON'T WANT TO DATE MY BEST FRIENDS TWIN!!!!!!!!! HELP!! I don't want to just say... No, I don't want to date you. HELP!! WHAT DO I SAY??

Hey girl!

Just tell him how you feel and tell him you are not ready to date or that you do not want to ruin your friendship with him and his sister.

<3 Brianna

Mighty Michelle on 9/19/2008 7:58:07 PM

Hey! You Should just like tell him how you feel and if he doesn't like you back may be then just let it slide! LIve on with your life

penguinlove on 9/19/2008 11:17:07 PM

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i just had my school dance. it was really fun except for the fact that when my best friend asked my crush if he would dance with me he said no. on the last dance i was going to ask him to dance to see if he changed his mind. right before i went up, he started dancing with this girl right in front of me.i have no idea who she is. i don't think he knew her either. do you think i still have a chance with him or should i forget about him?
Thanks!!!!!!!

SwimChik 34 on 9/20/2008 10:48:03 AM

I love ask lucky!! U should keep it in the mag.

thanks write me if u can somehow

basketball_rulez on 9/20/2008 11:35:28 AM

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I rly need help i like a guy in 8th grade any ways he is on my bus and rly popular but rly nice like super nice i realy havent talked to him only once or twice the problem is he hates my friend because she is realy hyper and isnt afraid to speak her mind and he thinks shes obnoxious I am the oposite of her llike exact oppisite but i love to hang wit her because she helps me not be shy and always stands up for me when people are teasing me. He stares at me on the bus when i am talking to my friends, He is rly caring and sweet my mom and his mom are friends but not realy close like my sister has ridden in his car before to the bus stop because my mom had to work and i had the flue But i realy dont know how to get him to notice me for the person i realy am i dotn know how to talk to him because hes in 8th and i am in 7th i realy just want to get to know him first but i dont know how like i can talk to him but he has to talk to me first. I realy need help sorry this is soo log thanksz

If you wait around for him to initiate conversation it might not happen. You should come up with something in common to talk to him about, maybe ask him if he had any of your teachers last year or something to that effect. You could say something like "did you have Mr. so an so for math i thought i heard you say that... what are his tests like?"

batonluvr13 on 9/20/2008 3:07:40 PM

I totally know my BFF's stepbrother and I like eachother and you can tell but my BFF totally would flip if she found out that I like him

cuteypie456 on 9/20/2008 4:29:45 PM

omg i have the same problem. i know my friends brother likes me and i really like him too. but i dont know how to tell my friend.?

jasoncastro82195 on 9/20/2008 6:51:43 PM

*MOD*!!!!!!!!
Ok. So I like this guy in my keyboarding class that I sit beside. Let's call him Ben. Well, one of my friends likes him too, and she's liked him longer. She told him she liked him and he never responded to her note. She says she still has a shot at him because he hasn't responded. I don't think she likes him for the right reasons. I'm friends with him and talk to him alot and flirt. I think he flirts back, but I don't know. My friend, let's call her Sarah, is mad at me, but still txt me every day about everything me and Ben talked about. What should I do?

Hey girl!

Talk to "sarah" and tell her how you feel and how you don't want to lose her over some guy. Maybe you can work something out.

<3 Brianna

Always Team Edward!!!! on 9/20/2008 8:51:34 PM

MOD So I like this guy and I talk to him like everyday in my computer tech class. We talk and laugh and I flirt with him alot. I really like him but I don't know if he's flirting back or just being friendly. We're into the same type of music, video games, and lots of other stuff. He jokes around with me and Friday he was especially joking and stuff. What's he saying???

Deacon95 on 9/20/2008 9:11:39 PM

Come check out my profile!!!

girscouts2664 on 9/20/2008 9:17:27 PM

ask you're friend if she's ok with it

Hugs and Kisses on 9/21/2008 1:42:27 AM

SwimChik34~
i would just forget about him. if hes that rude u dont want him anyway. ♥

novemberbaby164 on 9/21/2008 8:37:20 AM

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Hiya. Umm mod? I have a big problem. My mom is always in a bad mood. And I scared to talk to her. Like, if she gets all mad at my brother. . She takes it out on the whole house and evryone around her. And when she get all mad I'm scared to say 'wat the heck?' or even 'calm down' cuz I one that would make her explode. I can't live like this! I simply can't! Plz help!

<3

smileygrl333 on 9/21/2008 9:02:25 AM

that is the same problem with my ex-bff.

sk8chick18 on 9/21/2008 3:12:03 PM

ask your friend what she thinks, and if she fine with it, then give it a shot, you never know what could happen!!! =)

Becca_13 on 9/22/2008 2:38:10 PM

Tell him u like him, then go out

Raquel290 on 9/22/2008 6:08:19 PM

this guy in my science class is rly cute wit these rly sweet eyes I was doing my classwork and he kept asking for the answers so i was teasing him but playfully and gave him the asnwers he smiled alot at me and corrected the wrong ones on mine i was flirting alot but since this is like my first time flirting like every i didnt rly know if i was flirting. I also forgot somthing in my last period so i went to go get it and i came in late so he was said outloud to my teacher my name is here and he smiled and i laughed idk if this is flirting but i think it is close i am happy but i still like the guy on my bus alot.....

batonluvr13 on 9/22/2008 6:49:10 PM

Ok, well that is def. flirting just to tell you.

gloria626 on 9/22/2008 8:22:47 PM

hey hey hey. its like the opposite proble for me... i like my brothers friend, and hes too scared to do anything about becuz he said he was friends with my brother first and that people would think its weird if we go out... (i talked to him bout itt) idk what to do... should i give up? or keep tryin for my boy?

hettiepie on 9/22/2008 8:35:34 PM

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I like this guy and he knows me and i think he likes me BUT...well he went out with this girl i totally DO NOT LIKE!!!!Should I ask him out?????
Pink&MorePink

Pink&MorePink on 9/22/2008 9:19:04 PM

omg that sux.....

mairyfairy25 on 9/22/2008 10:18:44 PM

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i rly like this guy and im pretty sure he rly likes me, but im not sure if he can go out with ppl.i think im gunna try investigating 2 c if he can, or will, but im not sure where to go from there 'cause i dont want 2 end our friendship. PLZ HELP!!!

akamangoonastick on 9/22/2008 10:48:03 PM

akamangoonastick on 9/22/2008 10:48:47 PM

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i was at a dance last friday and i was slowdancing with this one guy. when i asked him to dance he smiled and said yes. then about mid way through he asked how is the dance and smiled. he was flirting with me the whole time. at the end he said thanks and i said thanks back. does he like me?

sounds like he might! Laura

morgan on 9/22/2008 11:45:29 PM

akamangoonastick,
just ask him if he's allowed to go out with ppl and if he says yes, go for it!

coca08 on 9/24/2008 7:41:19 PM

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Help! I just started 8th grade a week ago. I've been home-schooled all my life, so this was a big change.
Now I'm in school, and I really like it. But in math, the girl I sit next to asked me on yesterday to go grab her calculator from the front of the room. I went and got it for her, cause I don't mind doing a favor for someone once and a while.
But today, she asked me again. I went and got it, but now I'm afraid she'll ask me again tomorrow.
How do I tell her no without being rude?

This is a tough one. Try asking her to grab your calculator tomorrow before she manages to ask you to do it. That way, she'll just be returning a favor. She also might be less likely to ask you to do it in the future. -lauren

horseyluv on 9/24/2008 9:23:52 PM

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Help me! I just got invited to an 80's party with a lot of girls older than me. I have no idea what to wear! I also don't want to spend a lot of money. Do you have any ideas that wouldn't be too over the top?

Hey girl!

Anything bright and flashy is 80's. Forever 21 has some cute inexpensive clothes u can find. Bright tights and a long bright t-shirt sweat band and side pony.

<3 Brianna

cutiechic525 on 9/27/2008 5:44:40 PM

OMG!!! I have the same exact problem!!! check out my pro if u do to!!!

Rach OUT!!!!!

racherach1119 on 9/29/2008 11:25:30 PM

I THINK THE STEPS TO THIS ONE IS TO FIRST MAKE SURE ITS OKAY WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND AND IF SHE IS OKAY WITH IT THEN ASK THR BOY IF HE LIKES YOU IF DOSENT LET IT GO AND MOVE ON IF HE DOES THEN TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND GO OUT WITH HIM

victoria334706 on 10/4/2008 11:48:36 PM

First, ask you bff if she knows about this. Talk about it for a bit with her. See how she feels. Then, later, go tell him. Don't tell everyone else first. Then he will get the wrong message and it will mess up your friendship! If you don't feel comfortable talking to him, ask your bff too (if she understands)!

Soccerkid44 on 10/14/2008 6:31:17 PM

Mod...
There is this guy I like but he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago. He said he doesn't want any realtionships yet but all of the kids are daring him 2 dance with me and go out 2. I don't really feel comftorable (I am only 12) and he doesn't truly like me. I've tried telling everyone 2 stop...but they think it's fun. What should I do?

Girl,

Just let him know where you stand. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable when kids play around about the two of you dating. Ask him how he feels about it and if he has any suggestions on getting them to stop. This should help out. GL girl

Soccerkid44 on 10/15/2008 6:59:01 AM

THANK YOU SO MUCH MOD!

Soccerkid44 on 10/15/2008 5:04:49 PM

Hey Mod I want to make my profile visable, but it's not working. I know I have to wait but it's been 2 days! Help... Thx

There are hundreds of profiles waiting to be modded. Please be patient, its going to take a few more days., Dont update it in the meantime. xo JANA

Soccerkid44 on 10/15/2008 5:28:17 PM

K thanks...that helps! I have been updating it a lot because I thougth it would help (but I will stop now)! Thanks Jana!

Soccerkid44 on 10/15/2008 6:11:34 PM

Ask your friend how she feels about it first if shes okay with it and she wants you to go out with him hang out with him. at first it is weird but you both will get use to it. if you develope a crush on him ask him out and if you are afraid to ask maybe have your friend tell her brother to ask you. If he is also shy ask your friend to ask him out for you. if he doesn't believe her you are going to have to toughen up and go up to him and ask him out. who knows what will happen? he will probily say yes and maybe you two will be together for a long time. good luck! i hope this works out for you! -BABS

Hey Chicky,

Babs knows

<3 Sherryn D.

nickjonaslover011 on 10/25/2008 10:37:31 AM