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5 ways to be a better big sister

 

We all know that younger siblings can be extremely annoying and hard to get along with. They follow you around, are constantly asking questions and do everything to be just like you. It seems like you'll never get a break from your little bro or sis, and that actually might be true. Unlike friends, teammates and other people you'll get to know throughout life, your siblings will always be there no matter the circumstances. Even though that might not be the best thing to hear at the moment, you'll really grow to love and appreciate your younger siblings. Even if it takes a little bit of time.

So why not try to improve your relationship with those little rascals now? Why not try to bond and create a friendship that will only keep on growing and growing? Here are some tips to be the best big sister you can possibly be.

1. Reserve some time to play with them.

Ok, we know you don't play with Barbies anymore, and Star Wars just isn't your jam. But it's totally worth it to see that goofy face they make when you spend a good hour with them. Playing with your sibling creates a special bond. You get to learn more about them as a person, and they'll be able to trust you more. Plus, you'll secretly be having a blast.

2. Help them with their homework.

We know you have a lot going on in your life, but even the simple act of helping your sibling with some homework will brighten up their day. You don't have to do their homework for them but listen to their speech on Teddy Roosevelt and give some feedback, or go over their addition and subraction flash cards. Not only will this help them become a better student, but it will make you feel great at the end of the day.

3. Be there for them.

Maybe your brother got yelled at for bringing a dog into the house, or maybe your sister's date ditched her. Whatever it is, you'll need to be there for them when they're upset. You're their backbone, the person who gets them back on their feet and your words of wisdom will push them to keep going.

4. Invite them to do things with your friends.

You probably don't want them to tag along to a night of laser tag, but it's the little things that count. Let your brother hang out while you and your besties are watching a movie, or have your sister help decorate some cupcakes. Your friends love your adorable little sibs, and won't mind at all. It will also make your little brother or sister extremely excited and happy that they got to hang out with the "older kids."

5. Have one on one time.

Every week have one thing to do with your sibling that you don't do with anyone else. It's a time for you to both relax and get to know one another more. It could be shooting hoops outside, or painting each others' nails. Whatever it is, set aside all your other problems and worries and focus on your little sib.

What do you think GL Girls? Do you have any tips on how to be a better big sister? Let us know in the comments below!

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by Viviana Santini | 8/24/2016
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