Cheated on? How to trust your next guy
I have been cheated on two times by guys I REALLY cared about. I now feel like I can't trust boys or date. There is this guy I like but I now feel like I can't trust him and that I will get cheated on again.
Hey girl! Relationships are tough no matter what. We all know that it takes work, commitment, and good judgment to make it work. Here’s the good news: there are definitely guys out there you can trust. Sure, there are some bad seeds, but some are as sweet as sugar. You just have to know how to call them. Shy guys or guys with unbelievable morals are usually the types you can trust. My advice would be to get to know the guy you like first, talk about everything under the sun with him and get to see how his mind works. You’ll be able to trust him when you know him well enough.
I am so sorry you had to go through being cheated on. That can really take a toll on someone’s self-confidence – though it shouldn’t, you are not the reason he’s a jerk. However, if you take those unfortunate experiences and turn them into a life lesson, it can greatly help you in whom to trust. No matter if you think a guy is so good, or would never hurt you, you won’t be sorry for being careful and making sure you know what you’re getting into.