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I'm obsessed with boys!

My friend is anti-boys, while I’m totally obsessed with them. She’s says if I don’t start being less boy-crazy, she won’t be friends with me. She’s a great bud, but what’s better – boys or friends?

Dear Boys or Friends,

Since when do you have to choose? And since when do friends have to agree on everything?

Don’t lose a great friend – just make an effort when you’re with her to cease the talk about your endless crushes. Discuss the boys with other girls, but since this friend has made it clear that your incessant conversation about cuties is annoying, choose topics you both care about. Books? Movies? Sports? Actors? Vacations? College? Careers? Clothes? Horses?

It’s OK to be boy-crazy, but know when to change the channel.

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